Not everyone who leaves the church leaves loudly. Some slip away quietly - no announcement, no explanation, just distance that eventually becomes absence. In this episode, we unpack the silent exit from both sides: the one who stayed and never got answers, and the one who left and never felt heard. We talk about what silence does over time, how unhealed pain travels, and why the goal is not just to leave - but to leave and still be whole. Casualties of War is available on Amazon.