Obviously you would think the "test" I'm referring to is the pregnancy test I took over 15 years ago, but this one is a little different. 

I've taken a long hard look at some of my choices in life, especially dating, that got me into a very unhealthy place. And while I cannot (and definitely won't) take all the blame in this story, I think self reflection is unbelievably important to growth and success, marriage, and parenting.

The test I refer to ad nauseam in today's episode is the Enneagram Test, a personality test on crack. I've never been so seen (and so called out) in my entire life. 

If you'd like to take the test yourself (and maybe have a spouse take it, too) you can find a free version here:

https://enneagramuniverse.com

I also read multiple clips from the Enneagram Institute, one of the foremost purveyors of the nine personality types with a wealth of articles and information to dive even deeper into:

https://www.enneagraminstitute.com