
STARTING A CONVERSATION
WITH YOUR WAITRESS OR BARTENDER


Recorded on April 13, 2016 on a TSL Online Call
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Starting a conversation with a waitress of bartender can be intimidating, let alone make that conversation sexual.   We hear things all the time like, ‘They’re just being paid to be nice to me’.  Look, they’re paid to take your order and be nice, but after that it has nothing to do with that.  And because you don’t need to open you can get connected and sexual that much faster!
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What happens when you’re divorced and trying to date again at 50…in this case 53? You’ve been married for your 20’s, 30’s and 40’s and you have no life experience. How do you impress younger women? How do you impress older women? How do I please them in bed!? It may seem like there’s no hope.
This is what we are answering today in today’s TSL Podcast.
Where do we start and what do we do?
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His coaching specializes in addiction, dating, sex and relationships.
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HERE’S THE EMAIL (Parts removed)
“Steve,
I’ve been listening and slowly putting into practice what you have been saying. What really has been helping me is how to work around the age issue that I’ve built a wall around me with, too. I tried twice today with three different strangers to just connect with conversation in situations where I didn’t really have to say much. My self-confidence boosted a little each time. I got two to smile and one to laugh. Cool.
I’m 53 and going through an ugly divorce right now. My counselor assures me that I’m divorced in my heart and have been for awhile and just go out and meet people just like you’ve been saying. I’m broke, but I do have my story and wisdom. I’m somewhat shy, probably because of all the rejection I’ve been subjected to over the years. I’m not a world traveler like you and Jesus. I don’t have the financial resources you two have.
Here is my question to you. I have been married to one woman for twenty-nine years xxxxxxxxxxxxx. The sex has been shitty for probably twenty-eight of those years with me thinking that it will get better, right? Er, no. I bought into all that religious XXXX early on and that has kept me locked up within myself for a good many, oh XXXX, all my life. If it wasn’t for XXX, I’d probably have eventually combusted externally in a ball of XXX in all directions within a fifty foot radius. Okay, back to my question. You have slept with many women. I have slept with one. When I’d rather XXXXXX than have sex with her…you get the picture. So what do I have to offer in bed to a woman? I know what I want and how I’d attempt to please a woman and get off on making her squirm by making her wait and teasing her making her want it more and more, but I haven’t had the practice. So, I should just go into this with the practice makes perfect mentality, right? Did I just answer my own question? ”
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DIVORCED & DATING at 50

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THE EMBODIMENT OF SEDUCTION | Jim’s Thought Train


LUST FOR
LIFE



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Recorded on – July 4, 2018



Inside the mind of male fantasy there lies guilt, judgment and fear, all sugar coated with lust. We run from our fantasies. We think they will make us rapists and evil men and women, but we forget that we are human. We forget that sex is a huge part of how we communicate and even see ourselves.Sign up on MD Excellence & Get on the Calls
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THE LUST FOR LIFE | TSL Podcast 208



START THE
CONVERSATION




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Recorded on – May 2, 2018
on an MD Excellence Call




How to start a conversation on a first date and use it to get laid. In this tutorial, Steve Mayeda takes small talk and turns it into an engine for getting laid. You will see how you can take a simple conversation on a first date and make it completely connect with someone and turn them on.
This is a step by step guide for take notes!
(time code – scroll down)
VIDEO TIMECODE
00:00:00 – Intro
00:00:26 – Fancy Intro!
00:02:03 – The Question Asked
00:02:26 – Identity Exploration
00:05:18 – Structuring The Identity for Conversation
00:05:40 – The General (of the Conversation)
00:07:20 – How to Find the General | Beginning Rapport Cycle
00:10:32 – Setting Up the Ground
00:14:49 – Storytelling Structure (Complete Breakdown)
00:20:57 – Storytelling Example (Strong Exp)
00:22:42 – Storytelling Example (Weak Exp)
00:24:29 – Rapport Topics
00:24:56 – COLD READ BEGIN (Aka ‘Genius Time’)
00:27:28 – COLD READ Breakdown
00:31:04 – INTENT (Social to Seduction)
00:32:10 – Review
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START THE CONVERSATION | GET LAID | TSL Podcast 207

Going Through a Breakup [ LIKE A BOSS ]
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If you’re going through a breakup you might not like this dating advice for men, but it will work. Right now there are a few guys in my groups that are going through a breakup. They ask How Do I Get Over a BAD Breakup. The answer is simple…keep yourself busy surround yourself with good people and take a DEEP DIVE into the pain you feel.
Steve Mayeda is a Men’s Coach in Austin, TX. Steve specializes in dating, relationships and addiction. He is a father, family man and a BJJ Enthusiast as well as a Wujifa and Wim Hof Practitioner.
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