Most people feel great when they can tie up loose ends, but we are often faced with situations where ‘closure’ isn’t possible. We find this most in our relationships with other people. We can have a bad breakup, an argument, or even a slight disagreement, and as hard as we try, we just can’t make things right with someone. The truth is that life can be messy sometimes, and all we can do is accept things as they are. Through our acceptance, we acknowledge that we can’t change the messiness, but we may still be able to gain wisdom. Hopefully, over time we can release the pain of not being able to be in a good place with someone we care about so that we can be open to new healing and relationships in the days to come.