This week, Holly, Mia, and Jessie freed up 20 minutes of their day to try their newly purchased vulva masks. We discuss. 
Also, let’s draw a line under the disaster that has been 2020: Could September be the new January? 
Plus, Jessie thought she killed a dozen people, Holly’s celebrating her book’s success, and Mia’s youngest son pleasantly surprised her. We’re talking about this week’s best and worst. 
LINKS
Lindy Rama-Ellis on Lady Startup Podcast… https://mamamia.com.au/podcasts/lady-startup/lindy-rama-ellis/
A link to Lindy’s vulva masks, fig femme… https://fig-femme.com/
Gretchen Rubin’s article on September is the new January… https://bit.ly/3ljQIh8
The article on radical self-acceptance Holly references… https://bit.ly/3gFcacW
The link to Holly’s new book ‘ I Give My Marriage a Year’... https://www.booktopia.com.au/i-give-my-marriage-a-year-holly-wainwright/book/9781760789008.html
Jessie’s interview with Gary Jubelin… https://mamamia.com.au/podcasts/true-crime-conversations/gary-jubelin/
A link to Gary Jubelin’s book… https://bit.ly/2EEM4cA 
Public Enemy by Mark Dapin… https://www.booktopia.com.au/public-enemies-mark-dapin/book/9781760295356.html?source=pla&gclid;=EAIaIQobChMI3tmUh5K96wIVFbaWCh1XXgCSEAQYASABEgIlj_D_BwE
RECO
Mia- Finding Freedom… https://www.booktopia.com.au/finding-freedom-carolyn-durand/book/9780008424114.html
CREDITS
Hosts: Mia Freedman, Holly Wainwright, and Kee Reece
Producers: Lem Zakharia, Elissa Ratliff, and Zoe Ferguson
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It might be Monday... but everyone is still talking about Taylor Swift's new double album The Tortured Poets Department. But is it time for Taylor to stop being petty to those who've crossed her? We can't agree. 
Plus, a debate about pepper spray and whether or not laws should be changed to better arm women against male violence. It’s complicated. 
And, Victoria Beckham is a big birthday girlie. She's just celebrated the big five zero, but the way she’s celebrating delivers a universal truth about women and milestone birthdays and we have thoughts. 
The End Bits: 

Listen to the latest episode: Mia Re-thinks Her Relationship With Social Media
Read: Kim Kardashian is seemingly slammed in Taylor Swift's new album. Their fight escalated well before this.
Read: A Melbourne mum took her baby to Arj Barker's show when he asked her to leave.
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CREDITS:
Hosts: Holly Wainwright, Mia Freedman & Jessie Stephens 
Producer: Emeline Gazilas
Assistant Production: Tahli Blackman
Audio Producer: Leah Porges
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

An ARJy Bargy About A Crying Baby

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The queen of turning her breakups into number one records, has a new album. Taylor Swift'sThe Tortured Poets Department explores the five stages of breakup grief. So why are we so obsessed with breakups? And do women have a knack for predicting when they'll happen? We discuss. 
Plus, the most-watched show on Netflix right now, a newsletter (with a cheeky hack) and a controversial book - our weekend recommendations.
And, socks, long-distance celebrations and a great big period headache, it's our best and worsts of the week. 
The End Bits: 

Listen to the latest episode: Mia Re-thinks Her Relationship With Social Media
Listen: Yes, We're Reading 'Fairy Smut' Out Loud
Listen: Followed Home & The Voice In Her Ear: The Times We Trusted Our Gut
Read: 40 women on the specific moment they knew they were going to break up with their partner.
Read: 'I have to call in sick every month because I have a hangover. It's not from alcohol.'
Read: The hidden condition affecting the sex lives of nearly 1 in 3 women at Mamamia.
Get your tickets: Mamamia Out Loud Live Presented By NIVEA CELLULAR
Listen to True Crime Conversations with Gemma Bath 
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CREDITS:
Hosts: Holly Wainwright, Emily Vernem & Gemma Bath
Producer: Emeline Gazilas
Assistant Production: Tahli Blackman
Audio Producer: Scott Stronach 
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Taylor Swift & The Birthday Card Relationship Test

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It’s been a rollercoaster week for Australian women with an outcry about our safety after the Westfield Bondi Junction tragedy was paired with the relief after the long-awaited verdict, the Bruce Lehrmann defamation case. We unpack.
Plus, is it hot in here? Why so many women are deep in romantasy novels involving faeries (yep... that's how the books are spelling it) and some very sexy scenes. Claire Murphy shares a sultry taste of what you're missing out on.
And, Em Ratajkowski is empowering women to change the narrative of divorce, by turning their engagement rings into a new piece of jewellery. So who does the jewellery "belongs to" and what other women have done post divorce?
The End Bits: 

Listen to the latest episode: Honestly, The Times We've Considered Leaving The Podcast
Read: 35 women on what they did with their rings after their divorce.
Read: ‘I just read Fourth Wing and now I understand why everyone is obsessed.’
Read: 'I was in a reading slump. One author turned it all around.'
Read Elfy's article: Presenting schizophrenia as though it satisfies our questions is deeply stigmatising
Read: Justice Lee finds Bruce Lehrmann raped Brittany Higgins.
Listen to The Quicky to keep up to date with your news 
Listen to The Spill for your daily dose of pop culture

If you or someone you know is in need of support contact help is available: 
Lifeline 13 11 14 
Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636
1800RESPECT  1800 737 732 
Sign up to the Mamamia Out Loud Newsletter for all our recommendations and behind-the-scenes content in one place. 
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CREDITS:
Hosts: Holly Wainwright, Claire Murphy and Emily Vernem
Producer: Emeline Gazilas
Assistant Production: Tahli Blackman
Audio Producer: Leah Porges
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Yes, We're Reading 'Fairy Smut' Out Loud

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Australians are grieving the unthinkable acts that took place at Westfield Bondi Junction over the weekend. We discuss why this feels so close to home for so many of us. 
Plus, the verdict's in for Bruce Lehrmann's defamation case. But what's really at the heart of today's news is the ongoing pursuit of justice for Lisa Wilkinson and Brittany Higgins.
And, on a lighter note, Clare Stephens has gone deep into the chaotic rebranding of former Dance Moms star Jojo Siwa, or rather the "CFO of gay pop". Confused? Don't worry we'll fill you in.
The End Bits: 

Listen to last week's episode: The Best Career Advice We’ve Ever Received
Read Mia's article: This feels very, very close. Because it is.
Read: So this was an attack on women.
Read: The latest updates on the Bondi Junction Westfield attack.
Read: Justice Lee finds Bruce Lehrmann raped Brittany Higgins.
Listen to The Quicky to keep up to date with your news 
Listen to more of Gemma on True Crime Conversations
Listen to Clare on The Baby Bubble, Cancelled and But Are You Happy?

If you or someone you know is in need of support contact help is available: 
Lifeline 13 11 14 
Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636
1800RESPECT  1800 737 732 
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Want to try our new exercise app? Click here to start a seven-day free trial of MOVE by Mamamia 
GET IN TOUCH:
Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au
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Tell us what you really think so we can give you more of what you really want. Fill out this survey and you’ll go in the running to win one of five $100 gift vouchers.
Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show.
Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud
CREDITS:
Hosts: Claire Murphy, Clare Stephens & Gemma Bath
Producer: Emeline Gazilas
Assistant Production: Tahli Blackman
Audio Producer: Leah Porges
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It Was Just An Ordinary Saturday Afternoon

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Revelations from the new docuseries Quiet on Set: The Dark Side of Kids TV, are making many millennials and Gen Zs re-think their favourite childhood shows. From the bizarre and uncomfortable sexual innuendos... to Drake Bell's heartbreakingly raw story of sexual abuse, we unpack this important documentary. 
Plus, Jessie dives into the surprising reasons why so many people are not having kids anymore.
And, a disaster Friday morning, a story about a childhood home and the little treat that turned into a little chore... it's our best and worst of the week. 
The End Bits: 

Listen to yesterday's episode: The Best Career Advice We’ve Ever Received
Listen: Followed Home & The Voice In Her Ear: The Times We Trusted Our Gut
Listen The Spill: The New Documentary We Were Afraid To Watch
Listen to No Filter
Read: The parents of Nickelodeon stars are being blamed for the horrors they faced on set. But there’s so much more to this story.

If you or someone you know is in need of support contact 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732 or Lifeline on 13 11 14. 
Sign up to the Mamamia Out Loud Newsletter for all our recommendations and behind-the-scenes content in one place. 
Want to try our new exercise app? Click here to start a seven-day free trial of MOVE by Mamamia 
GET IN TOUCH:
Feedback? We’re listening. Leave us a voicememo or email us at outloud@mamamia.com.au
Tell us what you really think so we can give you more of what you really want. Fill out this survey and you’ll go in the running to win one of five $100 gift vouchers.
Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show.
Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud
CREDITS:
Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens & Emily Vernem
Producer: Emeline Gazilas
Assistant Production: Tahli Blackman
Audio Producer: Jacob Round
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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