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What You Want Most: Warrior Mind Podcast #473

02.01.2020 - By Gregg SwansonPlay

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Over

six years and going strong!  With over 1M

downloads from over 15 countries and 7 continents’…. this is the Warrior Mind

Podcast.

In

this episode of the Warrior Mind Podcast I’m going to discuss how to decide

upon what you want most vs. want you want now.

What

You Want Most vs. What You Want Now

It’s been a difficult

week. You’re exhausted, drained and praying for the weekend. Friday evening is

here, and you are faced with some choices: You could continue your Armed Forces

Triathlon training at the gym, join your battle buddies for happy hour, or

watch your favorite shows at home with a takeout pizza. What will it be?

During the course of life, your self-control is regularly tested when it’s necessary to choose between what you really want and what you just want now. What you really want usually involves big, long-term goals involving your career, your family, your life experiences and your health. You are probably aware of what is required to achieve these big goals, but it’s usually very difficult to get yourself to do it day-in-day-out. Here are 3 ways that will help you choose what you really want over short-term gratification.

Clearly

define what it is that you want most

What is your biggest

desire in life? Certain people can easily answer this question, but for some,

the answer is not so clear. Whichever it is for you, spend some time thinking

about and defining what you really want, in order to build up your ability for

self-control. This will enable you to keep your big goals in sight and reduce

the amount of distraction that happens when you indulge yourself in short-term

gratification. Consider these questions:

* What

values do you use to define yourself?

* What

do you want people to remember you for?

* What

are the big goals that are worth sacrificing smaller things for?

* What

kind of impact would you like to leave on the world?

* What

kind of things do you want to achieve and experience in your life?

Now you have a clearer

picture of what’s really important to you, work out how to keep it constantly

in mind. You could do this by having a daily prayer or reflection, or it could

be a poster on your wall or a background on your phone. Whatever you choose, it

will serve to remind you of what’s important when you feel tempted by something

that doesn’t align with your goals, which will keep you motivated to stay on

the right path. Consciously choosing between quality family time and happy hour

makes it easier to make the right choice rather than thinking about how nice

some beer and chicken wings might be at the time. Making the connection between

your daily decisions and what you value most can really help you achieve the

self-control required to get to your big goals in life.

Enjoy

this podcast on what you want most

Alter

your surroundings to bring what you want most closer to what you want now

One of the key

challenges when you want to achieve your long-term goals is the temptation to

do what feels easiest, or even to do nothing at all. Examples would include

watching TV all afternoon or getting fast food instead of making a proper

dinner.

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