In this episode of Easy Hard vs. Hard Hard, Bobby Shelton unpacks the powerful self-leadership lessons hidden in Scottie Scheffler’s reflections after winning the 2025 British Open. Despite dominating his sport, Scheffler reminded the world that winning is not the point—purpose is. From walking away from golf if it ever jeopardized his family to saying “golf is not who I am,” Scheffler reveals a mindset rooted in self-awareness, values, and meaning.

Bobby weaves this story into the broader framework of self-leadership and Hard Hard work, sharing his own lessons from completing a doctoral dissertation and offering insight into how achievements can either define us—or refine us.

Key Topics Covered:

Why Scottie Scheffler’s win was more than a victory, it was a masterclass in self-awareness

The difference between what you do and who you are

How faith, family, and identity shape a meaningful life

Bobby’s own reflection on achieving a doctorate and what came after

The role of self-leadership in navigating success, purpose, and identity

How to recognize when you’re chasing Easy Hard vs living out your Hard Hard work

Tools for Reflection:

Ask yourself: What do I think defines me?

Reflect on a recent achievement. Did it change how you view yourself? Why or why not?

Consider if your current work is building your purpose or just padding your résumé.

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