Parenting a PDA or high-needs child challenges your sense of control more than anything else — and not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because your nervous system has been conditioned to equate control with safety, success, responsibility, and “good parenting.” But PDA neurology doesn’t respond to pressure or structure the way the world expects it to — which means letting go of control becomes a necessary, emotional, and often terrifying part of the journey.In this episode, I share two layers of my own story — the years of destruction that pushed me to the edge of my capacity, and a recent experience that brought me face-to-face with an even deeper level of surrender. We talk about why your body clings to control, why letting go feels so threatening, and how to release expectations without giving up on your child or abandoning yourself.You’ll learn what’s really happening in your nervous system, why control stops working with PDA neurology, how childhood conditioning gets activated, and how to begin choosing internal safety over external control.If chaos, resistance, or unpredictability make you unravel — this episode will help you understand yourself with compassion and find a different way forward.👉 Click here to read the full blog: www.illuminateu.ca/blog/why-parenting-a-pda-or-high-needs-child-requires-letting-go-of-control👉 Click here to get my free eBook + video series: 7 Steps to Regulated & Resilient Parenting with Your PDA, High-Needs Child: www.illuminateu.ca/regulated-and-resilient-parenting