Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

By Team Coco & Nicole Byer

Society & Culture Comedy Sexuality

What's Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer about?

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

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05.20.2022

Drag queen icon Raja Gemini (winner of Drag Race S3) joins Nicole to discuss the stress of competing in the first all-winners season of RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars, why she keep her relationship off social media, and shares all ...

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer episodes:

05.20.2022 Keeping Relationships Off Social Media (w/ Raja Gemini) Drag queen icon Raja Gemini (winner of Drag Race S3) joins Nicole to discuss the stress of competing in the first all-winners season of RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars, why she keep her relationship off social media, and shares all ...
05.13.2022 Coping With Anxiety (w/ Taylor Tomlinson)
05.06.2022 Married, but Living Apart (w/ Judy Gold) The hilarious Judy Gold joins Nicole to chat about the challenges of dating a therapist, her experience being selected as one of Time Out New York's Most Eligible Singles, the ethics of writing jokes about your partner, and the benefits ...
04.29.2022 Do Men Not Like Funny Women? (w/ Drew Lynch) Comedian and friend Drew Lynch (America's Got Talent S10) chats with Nicole about a harrowing bee incident they had together on tour, managing high levels of anxiety, and why female comics have such a hard time attracting men. Plus, Nicole's ...
04.22.2022 Left for my Best Friend (w/ Tika Sumpter) Actress Tika Sumpter (Sonic The Hedgehog 1 & 2) recounts the times that boys have left her for her best friend, losing her expensive engagement ring, and meeting her partner on a Tyler Perry set. Nicole realizes she has abandonment ...
04.15.2022 Bisexual Erasure (w/ Stephanie Beatriz) Actress Stephanie Beatriz (Encanto, Brooklyn Nine-Nine) chats with Nicole about leaving a 9 year relationship, dealing with bisexual erasure, and explains the scam behind the cult-like Twin Flames dating platform. Nicole recounts her wild experience hosting the Critics' Choice awards.
04.08.2022 How to have a WAP (w/ Donnell Rawlings) Comedian Donnell Rawlings (Chappelle's Show, Winning Time: The Rise of the Lakers Dynasty) chats with Nicole about the powers of having a WAP, why successful Black women have the hardest time in relationships, being a throat goat, and hottest locations ...
04.01.2022 The System is Broken (w/ Lilly Singh) Comedian, actress and YouTuber star Lilly Singh (A Little Late with Lilly Singh, Dollface) chats with Nicole about April Fools' Day pranks, setting up a vision board in her shower, her experience hosting a late night talk show, and offers ...
03.31.2022 Nicole gets a special delivery of hot gossip If there’s anyone who loves mindless gossip more than Nicole, it’s her good pal Solomon Georgio. In fact, it’s the subject of his brand new podcast from Team Coco, The Juice! On The Juice, Solomon sources only the finest gossip ...
03.25.2022 Mistaken Identity (w/ Raven Goodwin) Actress Raven Goodwin (Single Black Female, SMILF) shares her worst first dates, the adorable story behind her picnic proposal, what she planned for her bachelorette party, and how dating long distance helped strengthen the love in her relationship.
03.18.2022 Twin Divorce (w/ Darcey and Stacey Silva) Oh my god, it’s happening. Twins Darcey and Stacy Silva (TLC's 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Darcey & Stacey) are here! They chat with Nicole about how they were separately cast on the reality tv show, getting divorced ...
03.11.2022 Granny Chaser (w/ Tenderoni) Drag king Tenderoni (Winner of The Drag Queen of the Year Pageant 2021) chats with Nicole about why they love older women, the challenges of performing as a drag king on your period, the scandalous story behind how they met ...
03.04.2022 Married in a Hospital (w/ Danielle Pinnock) Danielle Pinnock (Young Sheldon, Ghosts) and Nicole get mistaken for each other... a lot. The comedian and writer chats with Nicole about the different actors they get confused for, the grueling process of booking an acting job, and the very ...
02.25.2022 Sensitive Boys (w/ Jackie Fabulous) Comedian and motivational speaker Jackie Fabulous joins Nicole to chat about negotiating prenups, how to gently give direction during sex, finding the funny in your flaws, and how to appear more desirable by looking less horny.
02.18.2022 Love Exhibited (w/ Moses Storm)
02.11.2022 Dick Tricks (w/ Shalita Grant) Actress Shalita Grant (You, NCIS: New Orleans) talks to Nicole about life dating an MMA fighter, her straight sex phrase, the moment she realized she was a natural at lesbian sex, and how her interest in polygamous relationships lead to ...
02.04.2022 Lesbianity (w/ Gina Yashere) Comedian Gina Yashere (The Daily Show, Bob Hearts Abishola) chats with Nicole about the adorable meet-cute story behind meeting her girlfriend at a women's festival. She also discusses the process behind working with Chuck Lorre to co-create the sitcom Bob ...
01.28.2022 Cumbucha (w/ Lamorne Morris) Actor and comedian Lamorne Morris (New Girl, Woke) is here! Lamorne teaches Nicole about the importance of playing hard to get, and how to act unavailable to attract a man. They read a listener's story about a date who ditched ...
01.21.2022 How to Make a Man Commit (w/ Abbi Jacobson) Comedian and actress Abbi Jacobson (Broad City, The Mitchells vs the Machines) and Nicole go over a list of ways to make a man commit - is the advice solid or is it all just mind games? Plus, Abbi shares ...
01.14.2022 Throwing Shade (w/ Bianca Del Rio) Drag queen icon Bianca Del Rio (winner of Drag Race S6) joins Nicole to chat about the challenges of finding a partner who fits with your lifestyle, the smart system behind her meet-and-greets, getting reported on Grindr, shares secrets behind ...
01.07.2022 Hot Singles In Your Area (w/ Chelsea Peretti) Comedian and actress Chelsea Peretti (Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Sing 2) chats with Nicole about the best places you can go to meet singles, strong pick-up lines, and how she met husband Jordan Peele through a DM.
12.31.2021 Relationship Deal Breakers (w/ Nina West) Drag queen Nina West (Drag Race S11, Hairspray) is just as tragically single as Nicole. They commiserate over the single life, talk about how Nina’s life drastically changed after Drag Race, the most annoying responses to get on dating apps, ...
12.24.2021 Naming Your Body Parts (w/ Heidi N Closet) Drag queen Heidi N Closet (RuPaul's Drag Race S12) chats with Nicole about how her dating life changed after Drag Race, the kinky things she's introduced in the bedroom, the various names she's given all of her body parts, and ...
12.17.2021 Raw, Unadulterated Fun (w/ D'Arcy Carden) Friend, actress, and comedian D’Arcy Carden (The Good Place, Barry) joins Nicole live for some raw, unadulterated fun! They check in on how they've been handling the pandemie, the adorable details behind D'Arcy's 15 year relationship, microdosing on shrooms, and ...
12.10.2021 The Nicest Dick I've Ever Seen (w/ Naomi Smalls) The holidays are here! As a gift, we're releasing the livestreamed episodes from behind the paywall! On today's episode, drag queen Naomi Smalls (RuPaul's Drag Race S8, All-Stars S4) joins Nicole to talk about her experience being a sheep farmer, ...
12.03.2021 My Dominatrix Roommate (w/ Joyelle Nicole Johnson) Comedian Joyelle Nicole Johnson lived with a dominatrix. She talks about the type of clients that would visit her apartment, and the kinky 'services' she was offered. Plus, she shares how she met her husband at a funeral, making a ...
11.26.2021 Best Relationship Ever! (w/ Jimmy O. Yang) Comedian and actor Jimmy O. Yang (Silicon Valley, Love Hard) joins Nicole to tell the story of how he met his girlfriend, discusses at what point does a relationship become serious, and suggests Nicole change the name of the podcast ...
11.19.2021 Kidnapped and On the Run (w/ Aida Rodriguez) Comedian Aida Rodriguez was kidnapped twice as a child. She describes her time on the run with a murderer, and how she uses her stand-up comedy to process her traumas. They also discuss dating red flags to look out for, ...
11.12.2021 Real Life vs Your Persona Life (w/ Raven-Symoné and Miranda Maday) Raven-Symoné (That's So Raven) and wife Miranda Maday join Nicole to share the story of how they met, broke up, and got back together again. They discuss learning to love your real self as well as your persona self, organizing ...
11.05.2021 From DM to Marriage (w/ Shannon Joy Rodgers) Friend and writer Shannon Joy Rodgers (Jimmy Kimmel Live!, Ellen) joins Nicole to talk about roller-blading, the costs and challenges of planning a COVID-safe wedding right now, and how she found her husband by sliding into the DMs. Plus, in ...
10.29.2021 The Art of Taking a Profile Pic (w/ Rob Corddry) Comedian Rob Corddry (Childrens Hospital, Hot Tub Time Machine) joins Nicole to discuss cannibalism, the art of taking a good profile picture, Rob gives advice on Nicole's dating app bio, and they both geek out over cars.
10.22.2021 Zoom Speed Dating (w/ Gilli Nissim) Friend and writer Gilli Nissim (The Other Two, A.P Bio) joins Nicole to discuss breaking up in the middle of the pandemic, her experience speed dating over Zoom, and traveling abroad for hookups. Nicole wishes that she can go on ...
10.15.2021 Attached (w/ Brittani Nichols) Comedian and writer Brittani Nichols (A Black Lady Sketch Show) chats with Nicole about recognizing different adult attachment styles in relationships, how her relationship sparked by a DM slide asking "Who's that zaddy?", and discusses why it's healthy to date ...
10.08.2021 Second Puberty (w/ Carter Ray) Filmmaker Carter Ray (The Change Up) chats with Nicole about their experience going through a 2nd puberty while on hormones, the challenges they faced coming out while attending a Christian high school, and the difference in dating women as a ...
10.01.2021 Pooping Together (w/ Meghan Trainor and Ryan Trainor) Does the couple that poop together, stay together? Grammy-award winning singer-songwriter Meghan Trainor and brother Ryan Trainor (co-hosts of Workin on It') discuss the special relationship that's bonded over pooping. Meghan confesses she had 2 toilets installed in her bathroom ...
09.24.2021 Awkward Sex Talk (w/ Crystal Methyd) Drag queen Crystal Methyd (RuPaul's Drag Race S12) joins Nicole to chat about their most romantic date, getting the 'sex talk' at the age of 22, and debates if you should text your date back immediately. They also discuss their ...
09.17.2021 Playing Hard to Get (w/ Ms. Pat) Comedian Ms. Pat chats with Nicole about her time in jail for drug trafficking, shares the secrets behind her 28 years of marriage, and offers advice on how to play hard to get. Plus, Ms. Pat's not happy that Nicole's ...
09.09.2021 Yelp for Escorts (w/ Alexa Eason) Full-service sex worker Alexa Eason shares about her life as an escort. She teaches Nicole about BDSM, the relationship risks involved with sex work, Instagram's censoring of fat bodies, and the dreaded "Yelp for Escorting" sites where escorts are ranked ...
09.03.2021 Catfish Catcher (w/ Justin Martindale) Comedian Justin Martindale joins Nicole to discuss how their 'summer of love' has been disappointingly dry for the both of them. Justin shares the time he got catfished by a cop, how he deals with chucklefuckers while touring, and the ...
08.27.2021 Sucking D in the Locker Room (w/ Laganja Estranja) Drag queen and choreographer Laganja Estranja (RuPaul'sDrag Race S6) joins Nicole to discuss her truth coming out as trans, finding confidence in self-love, the thrill of sucking dick in the high school locker room, and getting off on Grindr messages. ...
08.20.2021 Hot Girl Summer (w/ Lawrence Chaney) Drag queen of Scots Lawrence Chaney (winner of RPDR UK S2) chats with Nicole about his dating live after winning Drag Race, how he got banned from Tinder for 'catfishing' as himself, and pitches to host the UK version of ...
08.13.2021 I got 99 problems... palsy is just one (w/ Maysoon Zayid) Comedian and actress Maysoon Zayid was born with cerebral palsy. She chats with Nicole about some of the cruel comments she receives about her disability, the struggles comedians of color face in Hollywood, and shares her wild industry rejection stories. ...
08.06.2021 How to be Intuitive About Your Love Life (w/ Laura Day) 'Psychic to the stars' and best selling author Laura Day is here to teach Nicole all about intuition and how to develop it. She discusses how she realized she had intuitive powers, coaches how to be intuitive about your own ...
07.30.2021 Problem Solving on the Toilet (w/ Yola) What a treat. Grammy nominated English musician Yola is here! Nicole and Yola chat about the difference in racism when dating in the UK vs the US, how crying on her motorcycle back from her mother's funeral inspired her songwriting, ...
07.23.2021 Thriving Alone (w/ Harvey Guillén) Actor Harvey Guillén (What We Do in the Shadows) is single but not quite ready to mingle. He discusses why he guards his profession from his dating life, how he found love on Instagram, and the important need for space ...
07.16.2021 Being a Single Mom of 3 (w/ Francesca Amber) Nicole’s close friend Francesca Amber (host of Law of Attraction Changed my Life) talks about the struggles of being a mother of twins, explains the latest fad of 'co-parenting', and describes how to use the Law of Attraction to manifest ...
07.09.2021 The Cost of Being 'Cute' (w/ Cat Hollis) Cat Hollis led the 2020 Portland Stripper Strike. Here, she explain why it happened and her work for equitable workspaces in the adult industry. Cat discusses the costs of being cute, shares the common challenges people face when dating a ...
07.02.2021 The Power of 'I Love You' (w/ Sam Richardson) Actor and comedian Sam Richardson (Veep, I Think You Should Leave) chats with Nicole about his success finding love on Raya, wanting kids so he can continue doing kid things, the power of saying 'I love you' first in a ...
06.25.2021 Are you 'Love Avoidant'? (w/ Reggie Watts) Comedian and musician Reggie Watts (The Late Late Show with James Corden) chats with Nicole about his unique eating habits, his time spent playing in a 70's cover band, and the weird shift from being a fake band leader on ...
06.18.2021 We're living in the wildest times (w/ Jason Concepcion) Jason Concepcion (host of Takeline, Binge Mode) joins Nicole to discuss the culture shock he experienced visiting the Philippines during a coup, how the pandemic revealed America's systemic failures, their favorite small businesses to support, and the WNBA. As America ...

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