Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

By Team Coco & Nicole Byer

Society & Culture Comedy Sexuality

What's Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer about?

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer.

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Playing Hard to Get (w/ Ms....

09.17.2021

Comedian Ms. Pat chats with Nicole about her time in jail for drug trafficking, shares the secrets behind her 28 years of marriage, and offers advice on how to play hard to get. Plus, Ms. Pat's not happy that Nicole's ...

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer episodes:

09.17.2021 Playing Hard to Get (w/ Ms. Pat) Comedian Ms. Pat chats with Nicole about her time in jail for drug trafficking, shares the secrets behind her 28 years of marriage, and offers advice on how to play hard to get. Plus, Ms. Pat's not happy that Nicole's ...
09.09.2021 Yelp for Escorts (w/ Alexa Eason) Full-service sex worker Alexa Eason shares about her life as an escort. She teaches Nicole about BDSM, the relationship risks involved with sex work, Instagram's censoring of fat bodies, and the dreaded "Yelp for Escorting" sites where escorts are ranked ...
09.03.2021 Catfish Catcher (w/ Justin Martindale) Comedian Justin Martindale joins Nicole to discuss how their 'summer of love' has been disappointingly dry for the both of them. Justin shares the time he got catfished by a cop, how he deals with chucklefuckers while touring, and the ...
08.27.2021 Sucking D in the Locker Room (w/ Laganja Estranja) Drag queen and choreographer Laganja Estranja (RuPaul'sDrag Race S6) joins Nicole to discuss her truth coming out as trans, finding confidence in self-love, the thrill of sucking dick in the high school locker room, and getting off on Grindr messages. ...
08.20.2021 Hot Girl Summer (w/ Lawrence Chaney) Drag queen of Scots Lawrence Chaney (winner of RPDR UK S2) chats with Nicole about his dating live after winning Drag Race, how he got banned from Tinder for 'catfishing' as himself, and pitches to host the UK version of ...
08.13.2021 I got 99 problems... palsy is just one (w/ Maysoon Zayid) Comedian and actress Maysoon Zayid was born with cerebral palsy. She chats with Nicole about some of the cruel comments she receives about her disability, the struggles comedians of color face in Hollywood, and shares her wild industry rejection stories. ...
08.06.2021 How to be Intuitive About Your Love Life (w/ Laura Day) 'Psychic to the stars' and best selling author Laura Day is here to teach Nicole all about intuition and how to develop it. She discusses how she realized she had intuitive powers, coaches how to be intuitive about your own ...
07.30.2021 Problem Solving on the Toilet (w/ Yola) What a treat. Grammy nominated English musician Yola is here! Nicole and Yola chat about the difference in racism when dating in the UK vs the US, how crying on her motorcycle back from her mother's funeral inspired her songwriting, ...
07.23.2021 Thriving Alone (w/ Harvey Guillén) Actor Harvey Guillén (What We Do in the Shadows) is single but not quite ready to mingle. He discusses why he guards his profession from his dating life, how he found love on Instagram, and the important need for space ...
07.16.2021 Being a Single Mom of 3 (w/ Francesca Amber) Nicole’s close friend Francesca Amber (host of Law of Attraction Changed my Life) talks about the struggles of being a mother of twins, explains the latest fad of 'co-parenting', and describes how to use the Law of Attraction to manifest ...
07.09.2021 The Cost of Being 'Cute' (w/ Cat Hollis) Cat Hollis led the 2020 Portland Stripper Strike. Here, she explain why it happened and her work for equitable workspaces in the adult industry. Cat discusses the costs of being cute, shares the common challenges people face when dating a ...
07.02.2021 The Power of 'I Love You' (w/ Sam Richardson) Actor and comedian Sam Richardson (Veep, I Think You Should Leave) chats with Nicole about his success finding love on Raya, wanting kids so he can continue doing kid things, the power of saying 'I love you' first in a ...
06.25.2021 Are you 'Love Avoidant'? (w/ Reggie Watts) Comedian and musician Reggie Watts (The Late Late Show with James Corden) chats with Nicole about his unique eating habits, his time spent playing in a 70's cover band, and the weird shift from being a fake band leader on ...
06.18.2021 We're living in the wildest times (w/ Jason Concepcion) Jason Concepcion (host of Takeline, Binge Mode) joins Nicole to discuss the culture shock he experienced visiting the Philippines during a coup, how the pandemic revealed America's systemic failures, their favorite small businesses to support, and the WNBA. As America ...
06.11.2021 Interview with a Male Escort (w/ Troy Amistadi) International male escort Troy Amistadi is here to answer all of Nicole's questions about escorting and sex work. He discusses how the TV show Gigolos inspired him to get into the business, the particular services he offers to women, why ...
06.04.2021 Back in the Dating Game (w/ Shea Couleé) Drag queen Shea Couleé (Winner of RPDR All Stars 5) talks to Nicole about finding love at the club, being a drag mother, wig mishaps, and doing poppers. Plus, Nicole's back in the dating game and it's off to an ...
05.28.2021 Sleeping with your Uber Driver (w/ London Hughes) Comedian London Hughes (Netflix's To Catch a Dick) and Nicole chat about her experience moving to America during a pandemic and race war, sleeping with her Uber driver, doggy style techniques, sucking dick, and pitch their new doomsday movie idea. ...
05.21.2021 Proposal Gone Wrong (w/ Paul Scheer) Comedian and actor Paul Scheer (The League, Black Monday) and Nicole chat about how his proposal to June Diane Raphael went terribly wrong, how June's wedding ring was stolen from her finger, and shares good wisdom on the importance of ...
05.14.2021 Kinky in Public (w/ Jessica Rothe) Actress Jessica Rothe (Happy Death Day, La La Land) and Nicole discuss if it's OK to do kinky acts in public, the bizarre ways people are monetizing kinks, and the surprising reality of male escorting. Plus, Jessica describes her pandemy ...
05.07.2021 Filming Sex Scenes (w/ Casey Wilson) Comedian Casey Wilson (Happy Endings, SNL) chats with Nicole about shooting her recent sex scene, exchanges crazy nannying stories, and shares how she met her husband on the set of Happy Endings. Plus, Nicole matched with her Nailed-It camera person ...
04.30.2021 Being 'Sexually Smart' (w/ JB Smoove) Comedian, actor, and self-proclaimed 'Love Doctor' JB Smoove (Curb Your Enthusiasm) joins Nicole to provide his wisdom on flirting, roller skating, developing rhythm, and shares his guide on having sensual sex. Then, JB elaborates on some motivational quotes. For more ...
04.23.2021 Bad Dating App Bios (w/ Aparna Nancherla) Stand-up comedian Aparna Nancherla (BoJack Horseman, Corporate) joins Nicole to discuss how her first and only Tinder date evolved into her longterm relationship. They read some bad dating app bios, talk The Real Housewives of Potomac, and Aparna gives advice ...
04.16.2021 Will You Be My Girl? (w/ Jillian Bell) Actress and comedian Jillian Bell (Workaholics,The Pole) joins Nicole to solve the reasoning behind their mutual singleness. They discuss the results of their recent psychic readings, how they confront people who aren't wearing a mask, QAnon, and manifest qualities of ...
04.09.2021 Finding the G-Spot (w/ Marc Rebillet) Loop Daddy AKA Marc Rebillet Fucks. He and Nicole have a very horny chat about how he's enjoying his singledom, gaining the confidence to dominate submissive women, and why being brutally honest in a relationship will save you so much ...
04.06.2021 Deputy Gangs in the LA County Sheriff's Department (w/ Cerise Castle) In this bonus episode, Nicole talks to reporter Cerise Castle about her multi-part series, A TRADITION OF VIOLENCE, uncovering the history of deputy gangs in the LA County Sheriff's Department. Please note that this episode contains descriptions of police brutality ...
04.02.2021 Arranged Marriages (w/ Hari Kondabolu) Stand-up comedian Hari Kondabolu (The Problem with Apu, host of Politically Re-Active) joins Nicole to break down some common misconceptions about arranged marriages, shares how he met his wife on Facebook, and discusses the importance of having personal space in ...
03.26.2021 Acid Tripping (w/ Bowen Yang) Actor and comedian Bowen Yang (SNL) is just as fiercely single as Nicole. They talk about the struggles of singledom, the crazy current news cycles, their acid tripping experiences, and Bowen shares dating advice he received from Adam Sandler. Black ...
03.19.2021 Polyamorous and Experimenting (w/ Ashley Ray) Comedian and pop culture expert Ashley Ray (host of TV I Say podcast) used Tinder to run an experiment where she dated every zodiac sign for a month at a time. She explains her findings, her polyamorous dating life, and ...
03.12.2021 How to Manifest your Dream Man (w/ Alaska Thunderfuck) Drag queen Alaska Thunderfuck (RuPaul's Drag Race S5, winner of Drag Race All Stars S2) joins Nicole to discuss what it was like to date another drag queen, how to manifest your dream man, their unexpected dating life after Drag ...
03.05.2021 Unravelling From A Breakup (w/ Rhea Butcher) Comedian Rhea Butcher (Adam Ruins Everything, Good Trouble) chats with Nicole about how they quit smoking after 16 years, being a lifetime vegetarian, and their old stand-up show, Put Your Hands Together. Rhea then discusses what it was like to ...
02.26.2021 You Need Therapy (w/ Nore Davis) Comedian Nore Davis talks with Nicole about the movies that have brought them joy, why he's decided to 'date himself', leaving a toxic relationship, and the importance of therapy. This Black History Month, research anti-racism resources and donate to Black ...
02.19.2021 Love & Music (w/ Randy Jackson) Musician/producer/host Randy Jackson (American Idol, Name That Tune) shares his skepticism with app dating, the worst date he’s been on, his favorite love songs, and catfishing. This Black History Month, research anti-racism resources and donate to Black Lives Matter at ...
02.12.2021 Stripping & Sex Work (w/ Teddy B. Ruxpin) Dancer and sex worker Teddy B. Ruxpin chats with Nicole about all things stripping and sex work. They discuss her start into the profession, finding her niche as an "alt girl", dealing with racism in the workplace, and her work ...
02.05.2021 Ask Him About His Credit Score (w/ Tiffany Haddish) Actress and comedian Tiffany Haddish (Girls Trip, Night School) first clears the air regarding her Clubhouse bullying allegations. Then, she talks about how dating has changed since Girls Trip, how men try to manage her, the story of a sneaking ...
01.29.2021 Owning Your Sexuality (w/ Margaret Cho) Comedian Margaret Cho (The Masked Singer, All-American Girl) and Nicole chat about claiming your right to talk about sexuality, her experience coming out as queer, learning Japanese bondage, and how she's practicing being a dominatrix. Plus, Nicole's worried she's talking ...
01.22.2021 Empowering Relationship Statements (w/ Deon Cole) Actor and comedian Deon Cole (Black-ish, Barbershop) joins Nicole to share his deep wisdom about love and relationships. They discuss judging people by the moment, recognizing if your partner is in love with relationships or with you, the troubles of ...
01.15.2021 Big Dick Energy (w/ Conan O'Brien) Conan O'Brien is here to help solve the root problems behind Nicole's singledom. They also discuss his sexually repressed Catholic upbringing, what it's like to have Big Dick Energy, and his plans for his 20th wedding anniversary. Nicole demands to ...
01.08.2021 Sex Work (w/ AM Davies) Sex worker AM Davies (Host of Yes, A Strippper Podcast) is here to answer all of Nicole's questions about stripping and sex work. She discusses the difference between decriminalizing vs legalizing sex work, how strippers are coerced into tipping the ...
01.01.2021 Lining Up a Relationship for the End of the World (w/ Niccole Thurman) Comedian & actress Niccole Thurman (A Black Lady Sketch Show, Shrill) joins Nicole to discuss their 2021 resolutions, how they are cleaning out toxic negativity in their life, and review each other's Hinge profiles. Support Black Lives Matter. For a ...
12.25.2020 Wedding Ruiners (w/ Solomon Georgio) Stand-up comedian and #Skategang member Solomon Georgio (Shrill, Adam Ruins Everything) talks to Nicole about his recent butt surgery and how he's been adapting to his new butt. They also chat about his skincare routine, the importance of partners posing ...
12.18.2020 Issues Affecting the Black Condition (w/ Roy Wood Jr.) Roy Wood Jr. (The Daily Show) shares his calculations on the safest way of traveling during COVID, discusses dealing with friends who aren't taking the pandemic seriously, getting detained in Canada, and reporting on Black issues on The Daily Show. ...
12.11.2020 Caught in the Act (w/ Jiggly Caliente) Drag queen and actress Jiggly Caliente (RuPaul's Drag Race S4, Broad City) joins Nicole to discuss sex work, walking in on friends or family members having sex, "Dick on-demand boys", and how much sex freakiness should you share with your ...
12.04.2020 Healthcare (w/ Langston Kerman) Actor and comedian Langston Kerman (Insecure, The Boys) joins Nicole to discuss her recent broken ankle and awkward brush with healthcare. He also shares the perks of dating long distance, how to attract chucklefuckers, and how he used the '36 ...
11.27.2020 Serving the Full Fantasy (w/ Creme Fatale) Drag queen & makeup artist Creme Fatale joins Nicole to discuss dating horror stories, how to leave a bad date fast, why aren't there any lady gloryholes, and makeup. Check out Creme Fetale's YouTube channel here: youtube.com/channel/UCJS8an0aBA9NfTBku95UOtw For more drag ...
11.20.2020 Grown-Up Breakup (w/ Lucy Stoole) Drag queen Lucy Stoole joins Nicole to discuss the story behind their drag name, their recent breakup, the struggles of dating app messaging, and if it's okay to leave a bad date early. Support Black Lives Matter. For a list ...
11.13.2020 Fresh Heartbreak (w/ Priyanka) Drag queen Priyanka (Winner of Canada's Drag Race, host of YTV's The Zone) joins Nicole to discuss their very recent breakup, getting COVID19 from Brooke Lynn Hytes, evolving from a kids tv host to a drag queen, and explains the ...
11.06.2020 Trash TV (w/ Patti Harrison) Comedian Patti Harrison (Shrill, Search Party) joins Nicole to chat about 90 Day Fiancé, issues with casting in today's media, and advocates for the well-being of child actors. Plus, they discuss their love for the Fast & Furious franchise, Patti ...
10.30.2020 Volunteering in Your Community (w/ Mitra Jouhari) Comedian Mitra Jouhari (Big Mouth, Three Busy Debras, host of Urgent Care) joins Nicole to discuss missing malls, the horrors of dating in high school, awkward Zoom auditions, and reminisce about their improv days in NY. Plus, Mitra talks about ...
10.23.2020 Advice from a Dating Coach (w/ Damona Hoffman) Dating coach Damona Hoffman (A&E Network's #BlackLove, A Question of Love) is here to dish some professional advice. She shares tips for video-dating, setting up your dating app profile, how to stay sane with your partner in lockdown, and so ...
10.16.2020 We're Thirsty (w/ Nichole Perkins) Writer and podcaster Nichole Perkins (Thirst Aid Kit) joins Nicole to discuss setting boundaries in your casual relationships, dealing with thirsty groupies, and, can you get COVID from your pussy? Plus Nicole writes a letter to her dream man, and ...

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