You're Welcome with Hilary Rushford

By Hilary Rushford

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As a stylist who explores what makes women feel beautiful, entrepreneur and Instagram favorite @HilaryRushford brings her witty, winsome, and wise voice to honest conversations on how to have an extraordinary life (without being exhausted): More joy and less overwhelm in your style, business, and life. You’re welcome (wink), in advance.

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You're Welcome with Hilary Rushford episodes:

12.08.2023
Ep 190: The Final Episode
This was meant to be a just 3 min announcement, but based on your reaction to the news Dean Street Society is closing, I felt we needed another moment to just hang and process. Pay The Value Closing Sale: DeanStreetSociety.com/closing...
11.29.2023
Ep 189: 5 Q’s to ask now to feel expectant for 2024
You asked for help choosing joy now and in the new year, after a hard year or season. Can you relate to any of these? You’re wishing time would go faster to get to something good...
11.22.2023
Ep 188: Please help with our baby name?!
The closer we get to a due date, the more I’m overthinking the name we have picked. Here’s my advice on naming, plus what I’m looking for in case you have ideas? Share this one with anyone working...
11.17.2023
Ep 187: We flew with my mom to meet our surrogates’ family in a whirlwind baby tour day!
Sadly, much of a surrogacy journey is bracing for disappointment. However the positive side of that, is when things are easy you feel so incredibly lucky. This week Jeremy, myself, and my mom all flew out to meet our...
11.08.2023
Ep 186: How get help to save you when thing are really, really hard
A breakdown of my last 24 hours and the choices I made when there was too much on my plate. Things are a lot right now. Today I’m sharing exactly what I’m preaching, practicing, and sending in voice...
11.01.2023
Ep 185: What if my dream doesn’t happen? 2 approaches that lead to burnout
I’m watching friends navigate life from a place of burnout vs healing, and the difference is astounding. Comparison (their grass is greener) keeps us chasing goals harder than we should. Yet, the opposite of envy is even more...
10.25.2023
Ep 184: Have I chosen the wrong dream + signs of burnout
What if some of the biggest choices in your life actually came from outside your head, not inside your heart? That’s the hard truth I’ve been grappling with. I’ve been coming up for air a bit after a...
10.18.2023
Ep 183: When things are hard, how to winter well + move towards spring
So many are struggling lately, both personal friends and members of our community. I had a different episode planned for today when a friend called with hard, hard news and I wanted to share part of what we discussed....
10.11.2023
Ep 182: How much should my friend risk giving up to fall in love?
What advice would you give? Would you want? The last two weeks while in Italy, I was swept away in the best romantic story. A dear friend unexpectedly met someone while traveling internationally far from home and texted,...
10.04.2023
Ep 181: Second trimester update + magical finds in Tuscany (roadtrip chat with Jeremy)
Join us on the road from Tuscany to the Italian Riviera via Rome on: My 3 biggest takeaways from the 1st trimester of our pregnancy and surrogacy journey Who we’ve shared the gender of the baby...
09.27.2023
Ep 180: My new simple Q to ask when cranky, insecure, or overwhelmed
Ciao from Rome! When we’re in a bad mood, we know so much we could do to make ourselves feel better. Yet how often do we not do it in the moment when we’re rushing, flooded, frustrated? Recently...
09.20.2023
Ep 179: Was your grandma beautiful, the purpose of photos, + breaking generational habits
A girlfriend chat going back to the future, around the world, and ending with more ease. (Don’t miss the PS!) In today’s episode we’re talking about how to live in the flow of love. That sounds hard to...
09.13.2023
Ep 178: How you’re hiding in your life + why it’s harming you
A few months ago I got messages from 2 women in one week who were both hiding, on opposite ends of the same spectrum, each thinking they had the most to be ashamed of. As I sat with their...
09.06.2023
Ep 177: The 3rd level of healing in my body peace, 4 signs I saw in myself, + exactly how to get this sense of quiet confidence
I went back to the site of past shame and was so grounded in myself, it was noteworthy. How did I stay more present than self-analytical, despite being in a room of wealthy people I had once felt so...
08.30.2023
Ep 176: Running into someone from your past + realizing you weren’t the problem
How often do you double shame yourself? Part of the shame is warranted: we’re imperfect and insecure. Yet from that place how often do we also take on a double helping of guilt, instead of being able to see...
08.23.2023
Ep 175: Don’t let people throw you off your game - 3 steps to avoiding mom shame, unsolicited business advice, + more
I had my first experience with mom shame, and I couldn’t believe I caved so quickly! I knew what was and was not a priority for me, but one little sentence… and I took an action purely out of...
08.16.2023
Ep 174: From anxious worrier to WILD PEACE, a case study in fertility/pregnancy, career/business, community/love, finances/home
We got a call from our surrogate that she was spotting, shaken, and headed to the hospital. I’ve been sharing how much I’m confused by the peace I’m feeling around surrogacy and pregnancy. As someone who’s always been...
08.09.2023
Ep 173: 7 Steps to Making Big Decisions (whether or not to have kids + we’re moving!)
For years I’ve been endlessly making big decisions. Did we want to have kids or not? Were we supposed to leave NYC, and if so to go where? These decisions were the two longest and hardest I’ve...
08.01.2023
Ep 172: The #1 insensitive Q to please stop asking pregnant people
I’ve had 5 years of being asked this question. #PalmToFace It’s one I asked others over the years! It seemed innocuous and I didn’t realize how triggering, personal, or just awkward it can be. This question is asked...
07.26.2023
Ep 171: Our Surrogacy Story (part 2)
How did surrogacy get on our hearts? What are the misconceptions about surrogates? Bigger picture, how do you make big decisions (especially when you have no one to ask) and look for clues in the seeds God/the universe has...
07.19.2023
Ep 170: Our Fertility Journey (part 1)
ICYMI my recent announcement on Instagram, we’ve been on a fertility journey for the last 6 years. From my first appointment about egg freezing when single, through multiple rounds of (failed) embryo freezing, to moving forward with a surrogate (gestational...
07.12.2023
Ep 169: When you’re not as far as you’d hoped this time last year
What if you’ve worked so hard the last year, only to feel so far from where you hoped you’d be? You’re still in debt, or the business still isn’t working; still waiting on the adoption or walking through infertility;...
07.05.2023
EP 168: Burned out + asking how can this be easier
I’m struggling today. You? I had another episode planned. Yet for reasons I’ll explain, it was feeling heavy. And I’m burned out. So I asked myself: What would feel easier today? I hope my enough will...
06.28.2023
Ep 167: What’s your beauty healing score?
When you say you feel “good” in an area, it’s compared to how you used to feel. You feel better. But if this is the best you’ve felt, can you really know it’s good? What if how you feel today...
06.26.2023
Limited Time Bonus Ep: How to save time, energy + $2k/year (with the data to back it up)
I didn’t want you to miss this. Last week I gave a keynote speech + I just extended the window to watch the recording but it expires THIS Thursday, June 29th, along with this limited time bonus episode. ...
06.21.2023
Ep 166: How to feel beautiful *without* loving your body + stop excluding other women
I want to introduce you to a new aspiration, belief system, way of living: Beauty Positive. My goal is not Body Positive, because you don’t need to feel positive about your body to live this way. Importantly,...
06.19.2023
Limited Time Bonus Ep: How to save time, energy + $2k/year (with the data to back it up)
An invitation to a special talk I’ll call “the podcast 10x” this week only! I’m giving a keynote speech + still have free VIP tickets available: How to finally feel confident and at peace in your body PLUS...
06.14.2023
Ep 165: My 3-Part mantra + method to like your body more today
There’s no affirmation I use more in my life. And this one actually isn’t even about your body. Yet it leaves you feeling better, kinder, more hopeful. And, better about your body. Then inspires you to take the next step...
06.07.2023
Ep 164: Real talk, how much would I spend to look younger + why filters are not the problem
You sent so many messages when I started this convo on Stories a few months ago. Then I had an appointment I wanted to tell you about (yegads) and the two came full circle. What we get riled up...
05.31.2023
Ep 163: Attractive angry women
When does our rage feel compelling, not repelling? After Part 3 of the podcast series went live II received messages like this: “Hearing this unlocked something in me…” “You awoke an anger inside of me I’ve been swallowing, and made...
05.29.2023
Bonus: Unofficial Part 4 Q&A
You requested this episode, submitting follow-up Q’s you had after listening to parts 1-3. Today I’m answering your Q’s including: How do you move on after that level of betrayal? How many books are ghostwritten? Have you heard...
05.24.2023
Ep 162: Where do we go from here
You’ve known gaslighting, rage at disorganization or disrespect, or a traumatic work/community experience. Today I’ll share 7 action ideas to help us protect ourselves in the present or future, those in our inner circle, and more broadly our culture....
05.17.2023
Ep 161: My Story 3 of 3: It gets worse
I want to say it gets better. In life I’ve really found that to be true. In romantic relationships, homes, friends, employees. But sometimes it gets worse first. How do you know when it’s time to walk away from a...
05.10.2023
Ep 160: My Story 2 of 3: Ignoring red flags to chase a dream
In 2011 I started a business as a stylist. I’d moved to New York City for my career in theater after a Broadway tour, Radio City Rockettes, and all that jazz. [The below timeline is not covered in the...
05.03.2023
Ep 159: My Story 1 of 3: Silent vs silenced
For a year I’ve been asked, “What happened to you? What exactly are you grieving about?” Each time I would reply, “Unfortunately I’m not legally allowed to share right now, but hope to be able to soon.” Now...
05.02.2023
Bonus: Aaron Update
The long + layered stories we’re all living in.That’s what this chat is about--you, us.You’ve asked for updates on my brother-in-law which I’m sharing here in the most respectful way possible.Yet really, this is about far more than one person’s...
04.26.2023
Ep 158: You don't have time to rush
How do you train your body to be more calm in stress? Today I’m sharing an anchoring phrase that helps me every time I remember to use it, in hopes this conversation will help us all do so more...
04.19.2023
Ep 157: How to Wait Well
When you’re waiting for news, for an answer, for closure… how are you patient, how do you get through the day, what do you occupy your mind with? This wonderful question came from a member of our Elegant Excellence...
04.12.2023
Ep 156: Sympathy vs empathy vs empaths + how to avoid pity
Four weeks ago I’d have told you I’m deeply empathetic. I still am! But I’ve been humbled as to how much I can declare that in scenarios in which I truly have never walked a similar path. It’s...
04.05.2023
Ep 155: For the caregivers (our brother’s recent paralysis from an accident)
If you love someone who’s walked through illness + injury, this “pour a cup” or “let’s go on a walk” chat is for you. My 26-year-old brother-in-law (outdoorsy, active, military veteran) was in an accident 2.5 weeks ago, fracturing...
03.29.2023
Ep 154: Why I’m ending my most profitable product + how to know when “it’s time” to make a change
Whether ending a relationship, letting go of a home or a side gig, it can be so challenging to know when a long story has run its course. And it matters BIG TIME! When we’re leaking energy on the...
03.22.2023
Ep 153: It’s tiring to be in the middle of a long story
Calming nervous system dates, the simplest path to feeling beautiful + more in today’s post-Florida download. 94% of us are in a waiting season. #HandRaised This week I stumbled upon a few ways to support myself in what feels...
03.15.2023
Ep 152: Zero Guilty Pleasures + Feeling Lighter
A light girlfriend chat after a hard week. Anyone else just need to feel lighter? We talk about Prince Harry, Pamela Anderson, habit stacking, winter blues, maman guilt (pet or human) – a grab bag of topics. All...
03.08.2023
Ep 151: My 13 year journey to healing
What’s the thing you keep trying to solve/fix/change in your life? What should I do for work? Why are friendships hard for me? How can I be less anxious or reactive? Today I’m sharing the history of the...
03.01.2023
Ep 150: The 5 reasons you’re behind
What’s stealing your time? I asked myself that question while using my Elegant Excellence Journal one morning. When we’re behind most of us tend to go to one main reason. Perhaps that’s beating yourself up, or blaming others. Perhaps...
02.22.2023
Ep 149: How to live well, instead of fearing death
A simple 5-part daily check in on living with peace while surrounded with hard things we can’t control. Trigger warning we speak of suicide and loss of life at a too young age. Though we end with hope,...
02.15.2023
Ep 148: An Encouragement to Keep Going
While in a hard season right now there’s 2 phrases I keep coming back to. One question, and one statement. They’re my mantras, my guides, and goodness are they blessing me. If you’re going through something hard right...
02.08.2023
Ep 147: How to speak up for yourself: agreeable vs demanding women + finding our center
I’m embarrassed to admit this even happened. Yet a recent appointment made it crystal clear: I am a people pleaser in an unexpected way, with unintended consequences for people I care about (not to mention myself!) Furthermore, I experienced...
02.01.2023
Ep 146: I’m still grieving + I’d like to be done thanks
Do you have days it feels hard to get out of bed, or you want to climb back in halfway through? That was today for me, and I decided rather than putting on a happier face to talk about...
01.25.2023
Ep 145: What makes women feel beautiful: Inner Body Positivity
Culture puts much emphasis on the outside of our bodies. We feel confident or insecure based on what others see. Hearing from a few students of my Healing Burnout course made me ponder a new layer of feeling beautiful...

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You're Welcome with Hilary Rushford episodes:

Ep 190: The Final Episode

Ep 189: 5 Q’s to ask now to feel expectant for 2024

Ep 188: Please help with our baby name?!

Ep 187: We flew with my mom to meet our surrogates’ family in a whirlwind baby tour day!

Ep 186: How get help to save you when thing are really, really hard

Ep 185: What if my dream doesn’t happen? 2 approaches that lead to burnout

Ep 184: Have I chosen the wrong dream + signs of burnout

Ep 183: When things are hard, how to winter well + move towards spring

Ep 182: How much should my friend risk giving up to fall in love?

Ep 181: Second trimester update + magical finds in Tuscany (roadtrip chat with Jeremy)

Ep 180: My new simple Q to ask when cranky, insecure, or overwhelmed

Ep 179: Was your grandma beautiful, the purpose of photos, + breaking generational habits

Ep 178: How you’re hiding in your life + why it’s harming you

Ep 177: The 3rd level of healing in my body peace, 4 signs I saw in myself, + exactly how to get this sense of quiet confidence

Ep 176: Running into someone from your past + realizing you weren’t the problem

Ep 175: Don’t let people throw you off your game - 3 steps to avoiding mom shame, unsolicited business advice, + more

Ep 174: From anxious worrier to WILD PEACE, a case study in fertility/pregnancy, career/business, community/love, finances/home

Ep 173: 7 Steps to Making Big Decisions (whether or not to have kids + we’re moving!)

Ep 172: The #1 insensitive Q to please stop asking pregnant people

Ep 171: Our Surrogacy Story (part 2)

Ep 170: Our Fertility Journey (part 1)

Ep 169: When you’re not as far as you’d hoped this time last year

EP 168: Burned out + asking how can this be easier

Ep 167: What’s your beauty healing score?

Limited Time Bonus Ep: How to save time, energy + $2k/year (with the data to back it up)

Ep 166: How to feel beautiful *without* loving your body + stop excluding other women

Limited Time Bonus Ep: How to save time, energy + $2k/year (with the data to back it up)

Ep 165: My 3-Part mantra + method to like your body more today

Ep 164: Real talk, how much would I spend to look younger + why filters are not the problem

Ep 163: Attractive angry women

Bonus: Unofficial Part 4 Q&A

Ep 162: Where do we go from here

Ep 161: My Story 3 of 3: It gets worse

Ep 160: My Story 2 of 3: Ignoring red flags to chase a dream

Ep 159: My Story 1 of 3: Silent vs silenced

Bonus: Aaron Update

Ep 158: You don't have time to rush

Ep 157: How to Wait Well

Ep 156: Sympathy vs empathy vs empaths + how to avoid pity

Ep 155: For the caregivers (our brother’s recent paralysis from an accident)

Ep 154: Why I’m ending my most profitable product + how to know when “it’s time” to make a change

Ep 153: It’s tiring to be in the middle of a long story

Ep 152: Zero Guilty Pleasures + Feeling Lighter

Ep 151: My 13 year journey to healing

Ep 150: The 5 reasons you’re behind

Ep 149: How to live well, instead of fearing death

Ep 148: An Encouragement to Keep Going

Ep 147: How to speak up for yourself: agreeable vs demanding women + finding our center

Ep 146: I’m still grieving + I’d like to be done thanks

Ep 145: What makes women feel beautiful: Inner Body Positivity

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Ep 166: How to feel beautiful without loving your body + stop excluding other women