When it comes to youth soccer in the U.S., one question keeps coming up: why does it cost so much? It’s a topic that sparks a lot of strong opinions, and honestly, I’ve wrestled with it myself.

Is it the clubs? Are they taking advantage of parents? Or is there something bigger happening here—something cultural, structural, or maybe even about what we, as parents, expect from the game?

I’ve heard stories of volunteer-run clubs charging just a few hundred dollars and competing at high levels. I’ve also seen clubs charging $6,000 a year, and it’s hard not to wonder where all that money goes. Between fields, referees, insurance, leagues, and coaches, are we paying for what we really value?

And here’s the kicker—do parents even want less expensive, volunteer-driven soccer? Or have we, in a way, created the demand for this “luxury soccer experience” without even realizing it?

I don’t have all the answers, but I do think the conversation has to shift. It’s not just about costs—it’s about what’s missing. Affordable options, transparent pathways, a middle ground between rec and elite—it feels like we’re stuck in a system that doesn’t leave much room for choice.

What do you think? Are we part of the problem, or is the system broken? Let’s talk about it in the Anytime Soccer Training Facebook group—I’d love to hear your perspective.