I was recently a guest on Codie’s show, The Big Deal Podcast, and the episode turned out great. Codie generously let us repost that episode here, so all of you get to hear our conversation about negotiation, deal-making, leadership, entrepreneurship — and yes, relationships too. I know you’re going to love it. Without further ado, here’s my guest appearance with Codie Sanchez on The Big Deal Podcast.

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Most people fail in negotiations because they don’t prepare, confuse influence with persuasion, or push when they should pull—Giuseppe Conti, the world’s #1 Negotiation Guru, shows you how to avoid these mistakes.

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In this conversation with Kwame Christian, Giuseppe shares the proven strategies behind his decades of experience teaching negotiation and influence at top universities and advising Fortune 500 companies.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

The critical mindset shift between influencing internally vs. negotiating externally

Why lack of preparation is the #1 mistake people make—and how to fix it

How to balance anchoring with empathy to strengthen deals and relationships

The role of AI as your “smart intern” in negotiation preparation

Why making the other party feel satisfied can be as valuable as the deal itself

Why do we keep ending up in toxic relationships — even when we know better?

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In this powerful conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with psychologist and trauma therapist Dr. Ingrid Clayton to explore the hidden reason behind this pattern: the fawning trauma response.

Ingrid shares how complex trauma rewires the nervous system, why simply “setting boundaries” often doesn’t work, and how shame keeps us stuck in cycles of people-pleasing. Together, they unpack the science of safety, what it really takes to break free, and why healing is less about quick tips and more about reconnecting with yourself.

If you’ve ever wondered why saying “no” feels impossible — or why you’re drawn to the very relationships that hurt you — this episode will change how you see yourself and your story.

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The future of work is here — and it’s neurodivergent.

You’ll discover:

Why assumption is the risk when it comes to managing people

How neurodiversity shapes communication, conflict resolution, and innovation

The real reason some body language cues can be misleading — and how to avoid costly misreads

How leaders can build psychological safety so everyone can bring their authentic selves to work

What happens to companies that fail to adapt (and why Gen Z won’t work for them)

Whether you lead a team, negotiate deals, or simply want to understand people better, this episode will challenge the way you see communication forever.

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TL;DR what is folk?

folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build

real relationships and close deals.

Why is folk better?

folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.

folk’s value proposition?

folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on

growing your service business.

folk’s tagline

folk, like the sales assistant your team never had

What product details will most excite your audience?

• ⁠⁠⁠Our seamless integrations with social channels⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠⁠Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y⁠⁠⁠

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• ⁠⁠⁠Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up⁠⁠⁠

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•⁠⁠⁠ folk's Linkedin⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠⁠Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠⁠folk's Youtube⁠⁠

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What if your body is sabotaging your negotiation — and you don’t even know it?

In this episode, legendary FBI agent and behavioral expert Joe Navarro reveals the subtle cues that expose confidence, weakness, and intent — long before words are spoken. With 25 years in the FBI, Joe shares stories from counterintelligence missions, elite spy-catching operations, and high-stakes negotiations where every movement mattered.

You’ll learn:

– The nonverbal mistake that ruins deals before they start

– How to command authority without saying a word

– Why “benign curiosity” is the ultimate secret weapon in difficult conversations

– The psychological patterns all powerful communicators share

Whether you’re negotiating with a client, a boss, or a narcissist — this episode will change how you see people… and how they see you.

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TL;DR what is folk?

folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build

real relationships and close deals.

Why is folk better?

folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.

folk’s value proposition?

folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on

growing your service business.

folk’s tagline

folk, like the sales assistant your team never had

What product details will most excite your audience?

• ⁠⁠Our seamless integrations with social channels⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y⁠⁠

⁠⁠ou⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up⁠⁠

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•⁠⁠ folk's website⁠⁠

•⁠⁠ folk's Linkedin⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠folk's Youtube⁠

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In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Colin M. Fisher, author of The Collective Edge: Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups, to explore the hidden psychology of group dynamics. From the dinner table to the boardroom, every group is a negotiation — balancing individual goals with collective success.

You’ll learn:

Why adding more brains to a meeting often creates more problems.

The “Goldilocks rule” for group size (and why 4–5 people may be perfect).

How psychological safety transforms conflict into collaboration.

Practical strategies to prevent disengagement and get real buy-in.

How family conflicts mirror team conflicts at work — and how to resolve both.

Whether you’re leading a team, joining a new group, or navigating tricky family dynamics, this conversation will help you see groups in a whole new way.

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TL;DR what is folk?

folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build

real relationships and close deals.

Why is folk better?

folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.

folk’s value proposition?

folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on

growing your service business.

folk’s tagline

folk, like the sales assistant your team never had

What product details will most excite your audience?

• ⁠⁠Our seamless integrations with social channels⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y⁠⁠

⁠⁠ou⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up⁠⁠

⁠⁠s⁠⁠

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•⁠⁠ folk's website⁠⁠

•⁠⁠ folk's Linkedin⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn⁠⁠

• ⁠⁠folk's Youtube⁠⁠

Energy beats strategy — and former Siemens & Alcoa CEO Klaus Kleinfeld reveals the playbook to end burnout, regain focus, and execute at the highest level.

In this conversation, Klaus Kleinfeld breaks down why energy management—not tactics—separates elite leaders from exhausted teams. You’ll hear how to turn purpose into a “laser,” control emotions under pressure, win buy‑in without formal authority, and build routines that actually stick when life is chaotic.

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TL;DR what is folk?

folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build

real relationships and close deals.

Why is folk better?

folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.

folk’s value proposition?

folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on

growing your service business.

folk’s tagline

folk, like the sales assistant your team never had

What product details will most excite your audience?

• ⁠Our seamless integrations with social channels⁠

• ⁠Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y⁠

⁠ou⁠

• ⁠Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up⁠

⁠s⁠

Useful links & resources

•⁠ folk's website⁠

•⁠ folk's Linkedin⁠

• ⁠Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn⁠

• ⁠folk's Youtube⁠

In this episode, you’ll learn:

The Energy Stack: body, mind (emotional + mental), and spirit—and how each fuels performance.

Purpose as a Force Multiplier: why purpose focuses energy like a laser and makes hard work feel lighter.

Emotion Control Under Fire: observer mindset (“interesting…”), the Buddha “gift” story, and box breathing (4‑4‑4‑4) you can use mid‑negotiation.

Beating Burnout with Micro‑Habits: morning training, sleep + light discipline, intermittent fasting, and travel resets that keep leaders sharp.

Compartmentalization & Presence: shutting the “monkey mind” to be fully with family or fully at work—on purpose.

Buy‑In Without Authority: build a burning platform (competition + customer reality), tell human stories, and pass the “Saturday morning” test.

#Leadership #Burnout #HighPerformance #Energy #Purpose #EmotionalIntelligence #Negotiation #ChangeManagement #TeamCulture #KlausKleinfeld #Siemens #Alcoa #CEO #Mindset #Routines

AI can write, edit, even cast—but it still can’t do what made TV legend Bonnie Hammer unstoppable: read the room.

In this candid conversation with Kwame Christian, Bonnie unpacks the human meta‑skill behind great leadership and negotiation—reading people and context in real time—and how it powered her “Blue Skies” era at USA & SYFY (Monk, Psych, Burn Notice). She shares why “fake it till you make it” fails (and what to do instead), how to hire for humility and team-first culture, why presence matters (“be in the room”), and how to build a spider‑web career that thrives through industry upheaval, streaming shakeups, and the rise of AI.

What you’ll learn

Reading the room: the irreplaceable skill that beats AI and drives better decisions, deals, and teams.

Face it till you make it: Bonnie’s upgrade to the old career cliché—and how to apply it immediately.

Hiring & culture: spotting humility, collaboration, and truth‑tellers (not cheerleaders).

Media shifts: streaming, bundling, budget pressure—and what creators should do now.

AI & guardrails: what to protect, what to embrace, and where human storytelling wins.

Presence & influence: first impressions, listening deeply, and speaking the language of the room.

Mentorship that works: why challenging mentors accelerate growth (Barry Diller story inside).

Women at work: the most damaging “lie” and how to replace it with actionable strategy.

Discount code

"KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months

TL;DR what is folk?

folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build

real relationships and close deals.

Why is folk better?

folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.

folk’s value proposition?

folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on

growing your service business.

folk’s tagline

folk, like the sales assistant your team never had

What product details will most excite your audience?

• ⁠Our seamless integrations with social channels⁠

• ⁠Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y⁠

⁠ou⁠

• ⁠Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up⁠

⁠s⁠

Useful links & resources

•⁠ folk's website⁠

•⁠ folk's Linkedin⁠

• ⁠Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn⁠

• ⁠folk's Youtube⁠

Keywords: Bonnie Hammer, reading the room, negotiation, leadership, team culture, hiring, mentorship, women at work, Blue Skies brand, USA Network, SYFY, Monk, Psych, Burn Notice, streaming strategy, AI in media, presence, career advice, spider‑web career, truth‑teller mentors, Kwame Christian, Negotiate Anything Podcast

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Most people are doing branding completely backwards — and it’s killing their results.

You’ll discover:

Why “pushing” your brand no longer works in today’s saturated market

The shift from making people want things to making things people want

How to apply marketing principles to your career, relationships, and personal brand

The five steps every human relationship — and every great brand — follows

Why trying to be on every platform is a losing game, and the smarter alternative

Giuseppe has advised some of the world’s top business leaders, co-authored books with Philip Kotler (the father of modern marketing), and his work has reached over 100,000 people worldwide. This episode isn’t just about selling products — it’s about understanding people, creating real value, and building a brand that attracts without chasing.

If you want to stand out in a world drowning in choices, this is your blueprint.

Connect with Giuseppe

giuseppestigliano.com

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"KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months

TL;DR what is folk?

folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build

real relationships and close deals.

Why is folk better?

folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.

folk’s value proposition?

folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on

growing your service business.

folk’s tagline

folk, like the sales assistant your team never had

What product details will most excite your audience?

• ⁠Our seamless integrations with social channels⁠

• ⁠Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y⁠

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• ⁠Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up⁠

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Useful links & resources

•⁠ folk's website⁠

•⁠ folk's Linkedin⁠

• ⁠Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn⁠

• ⁠folk's Youtube⁠

Be nice, be invisible—brand leaders pick a strategic enemy and own the category.

⁠Buy the book The Strategic Enemy - How To Build & Position a Brand Worth Fighting For. By Laura Ries⁠

In this episode, branding strategist Laura Ries (daughter of positioning pioneer Al Ries) breaks down why playing it safe kills momentum, how to define a category you can own, and how the psychology of contrast turns brands into movements. We dig into visual hammers, multi-brand vs. line extensions, and the bold decision to say no so a brand can finally say something.

You’ll learn:

What a strategic enemy is (and isn’t)—and why it supercharges word-of-mouth

How to choose the right category first, then dominate it with brand

The role of a visual hammer (icon, color, shape) in instant recognition

Why line extensions backfire—and when a new brand is the winning move

How personal branding uses the same rules (signature look, ruthless focus)

Why advertising should reinforce, not introduce, a positioning

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Buy the book The Strategic Enemy - How To Build & Position a Brand Worth Fighting For. By Laura Ries

Laura Ries Website

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Discount code

"KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months

TL;DR what is folk?

folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build

real relationships and close deals.

Why is folk better?

folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.

folk’s value proposition?

folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on

growing your service business.

folk’s tagline

folk, like the sales assistant your team never had

What product details will most excite your audience?

• Our seamless integrations with social channels

• Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y

ou

• Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up

s

Useful links & resources

• folk's website

• folk's Linkedin

• Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn

• folk's Youtube