The Anxious Achiever

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The Anxious Achiever episodes

  • Managing Anxiety When Passion Drives Your Work with Poppy Jaman, OBE

    How can you build a mentally healthy workplace while still managing the pressure, expectations, and emotional challenges of mission-driven work? In this episode, I talk with Poppy Jaman, OBE, founding CEO of Mental Health First Aid England and CEO of the City Mental Health Alliance, now known as MindForward Alliance UK, about creating workplaces where people can bring their whole selves to work while maintaining healthy boundaries. We break down how stigma prevents people from seeking support, and the mental health challenges that come with caring and mission-driven work. Poppy also opens up about her experience with postnatal depression, how meaningful work supported her mental health, and the practices she uses to protect her mental well-being. Tune in to learn how to recognize your own stress signals, check in with yourself, and build a personal toolkit for staying mentally well. 


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    In this Episode, You Will Learn

    00:00 What does a mentally healthy workplace look like?

    03:45 Creating a culture where people can bring their whole selves to work.

    05:15 Balancing authenticity with healthy boundaries at work.

    07:45 Why compassion can be more helpful than empathy in leadership.

    10:00 What happened to inspire your journey into workplace mental health?

    15:45 How meaningful work can provide purpose, identity, and support during difficult times.

    18:45 The stigma that makes mental health and leadership difficult to talk about.

    21:00 Why mission-driven and caring professions can create unique pressures.

    23:30 Protecting relationships and personal time when your work is your mission.

    26:00 What’s the cost of giving your whole self to your work?

    27:30 How to check in with yourself and name what you’re feeling.

    29:15 Building a personal well-being toolkit around the things that make you feel good.

    30:30 How to use your stress signature to recognize when you need extra support.


    Resources + Links

    Learn more about MindForward Alliance UK (formerly City Mental Health Alliance) HERE

    Learn more about Mental Health First Aid England HERE

    Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

    Watch the podcast on YouTube 

    Find more resources on our website morraam.com


    Follow

    Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

    Follow Poppy Jaman on LinkedIn: @poppyjaman

    36 min
  • How to Recenter Yourself With Dr. Liane Davey

    Do you ever feel exhausted at the end of the workday without being able to point to what you actually accomplished? In this episode, I talk with Dr. Liane Davey, an organizational psychologist, about the invisible cognitive and emotional load that keeps you distracted, anxious, and stuck in the swirl. We break down the connection between thoughtload and conflict, why modern workplaces create so much mental noise, and what happens when you outsource too much of your thinking and feedback to AI. We also share the difference between useful stress and generalized anxiety, the power of “doing more nothing,” and how taking one small action can help you get unstuck. Tune in to learn how to create more space in your brain and get back to doing meaningful work.


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    Monarch - Write your own money story with Monarch and save 50% off your first year at monarch.com with code ACHIEVER.

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    In this Episode, You Will Learn

    00:00 What is thoughtload, and how does it affect your work?

    03:45 How thoughtload affects your ability to have a good fight.

    06:00 The invisible tax that drains your attention, emotions, and energy.

    09:30 Why modern workplaces create so much mental noise.

    13:00 What happens when feedback becomes constant and impersonal?

    15:30 Can AI actually help us become better at giving and receiving feedback?

    19:15 What’s the difference between using AI to think and using it to avoid thinking?

    22:30 What does deeper processing have to do with better work?

    25:15 Why high thought load makes creativity and presence harder.

    27:15 Is all stress and anxiety actually harmful?

    30:00 What your emotional reactions can reveal about what matters to you.

    33:45 The first step to getting off the hamster wheel.

    36:00 Could doing less actually help you access more insight and creativity?

    42:45 Ways to create more space for your brain.

    45:45 What is conflict debt, and what happens when you avoid difficult conversations?

    48:00 How a triggered state can change the way you interpret an email.

    52:15 What conflict patterns did you learn from your family?


    Resources + Links

    Get your copy of Thoughtload by Liane Davey HERE

    Get your copy of The Good Fight by Liane Davey HERE

    Learn more about Liane Davey HERE

    Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

    Watch the podcast on YouTube 

    Find more resources on our website morraam.com


    Follow

    Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

    Follow Liane on LinkedIn: @lianedavey

    1 hr 4 min
  • How to Handle Anxiety About Difficult Conversations with Amy Gallo

    Do you avoid difficult conversations because you don't want to make things worse? You're not alone. Many of us avoid conflict because it feels uncomfortable, but avoiding it often creates even more stress, uncertainty, and anxiety. In this episode, I sit down with workplace conflict expert Amy Gallo to talk about why healthy conflict is an essential leadership skill and how you can approach difficult conversations with more confidence. We talk about how emotional flooding affects difficult conversations, why shame often keeps us from speaking up, and Amy's 4-step framework for handling difficult conversations with more clarity and confidence. Tune in to discover a healthier way to approach difficult conversations.


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    Monarch - Write your own money story with Monarch and save 50% off your first year at monarch.com with code ACHIEVER.

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    In this Episode, You Will Learn

    00:00 Why does avoiding conflict make you even more anxious?

    03:15 How Amy Gallo became fascinated by workplace conflict.

    06:00 Can healthy conflict actually strengthen your relationships?

    07:30 How emotional flooding can derail difficult conversations.

    10:15 Why avoiding conflict creates long-term stress and anxiety.

    12:00 What's stopping you from speaking up?

    14:15 Shift from winning the argument to solving the problem together.

    18:15 Ways to practice conflict in everyday situations.

    23:30 Amy Gallo's 4-step framework for difficult conversations.

    27:15 How to identify what really matters before the conversation begins.

    30:00 When should you compromise, let it go, or walk away?

    33:00 What to do after a difficult conversation doesn't go as planned.


    Resources + Links

    Get a copy of Amy Gallo's book, Getting Along: How to Work with Anyone (Even Difficult People) HERE

    Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

    Watch the podcast on YouTube 

    Find more resources on our website morraam.com


    Follow

    Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

    Follow Amy: on LinkedIn @amyegallo + Instagram @amyegallo

    42 min
  • Ambition And Motherhood Are a Magic Combination with Dr. Anne Welsh

    Do you feel like you're constantly choosing between your career, your children, and yourself? In this episode, I talk with Dr. Ann Welsh, a therapist and psychologist, about why women are taught to see motherhood and ambition as opposing forces. We dive into the ambition paradox and how motherhood challenges you to rethink what success really means. We also discuss the power of small changes, reconnecting with joy and hobbies, the difference between healthy and unhealthy striving, and how to separate your worth from achievement, money, and status. Tune in to learn how to pursue what you want while creating a version of ambition that feels sustainable and true to you.


    Check out our sponsors:

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    In this Episode, You Will Learn

    00:00 The expectations women carry into motherhood and their careers.

    03:45 Rethinking ambition as motherhood changes your identity and priorities.

    06:00 The motherhood advantage and how becoming a mother can strengthen your career.

    11:00 What is an ambition paradox?

    16:00 How perfectionism, people pleasing, and pretending fuel the ambition paradox.

    20:00 Why achievement-driven habits can stop working in motherhood.

    23:45 When feeling unhappy doesn't mean you need to blow up your life.

    27:30 How small shifts can create sustainable change.

    33:30 What are the different kinds of ambition?

    38:00 Separating money, achievement, and success from your sense of worth.

    42:00 What is healthy versus unhealthy striving?

    46:15 What it takes to pursue ambition in a sustainable way.

    52:45 An exercise for letting go of expectations that no longer fit.


    Resources + Links

    Get a copy of Ambitious Mother HERE

    Learn more about Dr. Anne Welsh HERE

    Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

    Watch the podcast on YouTube 

    Find more resources on our website morraam.com


    Follow

    Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

    Follow Anne: on LinkedIn @drannewelsh + Instagram @drannewelsh

    1 hr 1 min
  • How To Work And Lead With Intention with Jacqui Brassey & Vivek Bapat

    How can leaders create healthier, more intentional workplaces while navigating anxiety, uncertainty, and remote work? In this classic episode, I talk with Jacqui Brassey, co-leader at the McKinsey Health Institute, and Vivek Bapat of SAP on the connection between leadership, mental health, and workplace culture. We dive into how toxic behavior fuels anxiety, why emotional flexibility and psychological safety matter, and how leaders can create space for people to bring their whole selves to work. We also talk about intentional communication, building relationships in remote and hybrid teams, and why empathy, listening, and healthy boundaries are essential to leading well. Tune in to discover what it really takes to create a workplace where people can feel supported, connected, and able to do their best work.


    Check out our sponsors:

    ElevenLabs - If you run a business or handle customer operations across support, sales, or marketing, you can start with a demo at elevenlabs.io/achiever. 

    Granola - If meetings are eating up your day, Granola is a no-brainer. You can try it totally free - just head to granola.ai/ACHIEVER. 

    IM8 - Go to IM8HEALTH.com/achiever RIGHT NOW or click on the link in the description and use code achiever for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, plus ten percent off your order

    Monarch - Write your own money story with Monarch. Use code ACHIEVER at Monarch.com to get your first year of Monarch Core half off at just $50.

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    In this Episode, You Will Learn

    00:00 Why mental health is essential to organizational health.

    06:15 The anxiety that keeps people from speaking up, taking risks, and sharing ideas.

    08:45 Toxic behavior, stress, and the cycle that fuels workplace anxiety.

    13:00 How workplace culture affects individual and team well-being.

    16:30 Why mental health benefits alone can't fix a toxic team culture.

    21:30 What is authentic confidence?

    26:30 Why leaders need to embrace uncertainty and let go of control.

    30:15 How leaders can create psychological safety at work.

    34:00 How openness can strengthen remote teams and relationships.

    37:15 Lessons from 16 years of leading remotely.

    43:15 What companies risk when productivity becomes the only measure of remote work.

    49:00 How deep listening can help managers show they care.

    51:00 What leaders can learn when they fail to notice someone is struggling.

    53:30 How can leaders use boundaries to support their team's mental health?


    Resources + Links

    Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

    Watch the podcast on YouTube 

    Find more resources on our website morraam.com


    Follow

    Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

    Follow Jacqui on LinkedIn: @jacquibrassey

    Follow Vivek on LinkedIn: @vivekbapat

    1 hr 2 min
  • The Psychology of Leadership With Sébastien Page

    What if anxiety isn't something you need to eliminate, but something you can learn to work with? In this episode, I sit down with Sébastien Page, Chief Investment Officer and Head of Global Multi-Asset at T. Rowe Price, to explore how personality, stress, and anxiety shape the way we lead and perform. We share how to use anxiety as fuel, the difference between mastery and ego, why relationships matter to high performance, and what high achievers can learn from sports psychology. Tune in to discover how to pursue excellence without losing sight of your wellbeing.


    Check out our sponsors:

    ElevenLabs - If you run a business or handle customer operations across support, sales, or marketing, you can start with a demo at elevenlabs.io/achiever. 

    Granola - If meetings are eating up your day, Granola is a no-brainer. You can try it totally free - just head to granola.ai/ACHIEVER. 

    IM8 - Go to IM8HEALTH.com/achiever RIGHT NOW or click on the link in the description and use code achiever for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, plus ten percent off your order

    Monarch - Write your own money story with Monarch. Use code ACHIEVER at Monarch.com to get your first year of Monarch Core half off at just $50.

    Shopify - Head over to SHOPIFY.COM/anxiousachiever to start your free trial today. 

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    Brevo - Get started for free today—or use code ACHIEVER50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription.


    In this Episode, You Will Learn

    00:00 What does leadership mean to you?

    05:30 How your personality can shape the way you lead and perform.

    08:15 Why listening is one of the most underrated leadership skills.

    13:00 How sports psychology helps you reframe anxiety as fuel. 

    15:00 Why stress led Sébastien to study the psychology of leadership.

    19:00 What positive psychology teaches you about high performance.

    22:30 Why the joy of work matters for high achievers.

    27:30 What is the difference between mastery and ego?

    29:00 How relationships and teamwork can improve performance.

    32:00 How individual performance and collaboration can work together.

    38:30 What will AI mean for the future of work?

    40:30 How anxiety can shape the way you lead and perform.

    45:00 What Simone Biles can teach us about mental health and performance.

    48:45 How past experiences shape your emotional reactions.

    51:15 What losing can teach us about resilience.

    55:00 How thinking about death can put everyday challenges into perspective. 


    Resources + Links

    Get a copy of Sébastien‘s book The Psychology of Leadership HERE

    Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

    Watch the podcast on YouTube 

    Find more resources on our website morraam.com


    Follow

    Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

    Follow Sébastien: @sebastien-page

    1 hr 2 min
  • A C-Suite Exec On Finding Growth After Battling Depression with Paul Greenberg

    What does it take to keep leading when depression tells you that you can’t go on? In this classic episode, I talk with Paul Greenberg, CEO of Butter Works about building a successful career while living with severe, chronic depression and suicidal thoughts. Paul shares how he kept showing up for work, why connecting with other people gave him a sense of purpose, and what happened when decades of traditional treatments failed to bring relief. We also talk about ECT, ketamine treatment, mental health stigma, and how leaders can create workplaces where people feel safer asking for help. Get ready to rethink what strength and success can look like when mental illness is part of the picture.


    Check out our sponsors:

    ElevenLabs - If you run a business or handle customer operations across support, sales, or marketing, you can start with a demo at elevenlabs.io/achiever. 

    Granola - If meetings are eating up your day, Granola is a no-brainer. You can try it totally free - just head to granola.ai/ACHIEVER. 

    IM8 - Go to IM8HEALTH.com/achiever RIGHT NOW or click on the link in the description and use code achiever for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, plus ten percent off your order

    Monarch - Write your own money story with Monarch. Use code ACHIEVER at Monarch.com to get your first year of Monarch Core half off at just $50.

    Shopify - Head over to SHOPIFY.COM/anxiousachiever to start your free trial today. 

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    In this Episode, You Will Learn

    00:00 How can someone build a successful career while living with severe depression?

    03:45 What does a “slog day” with severe depression actually feel like?

    06:00 Can depression make you more sensitive to what other people are feeling?

    08:15 How depression created a constant and destructive inner narrative.

    10:45 Why achievement and responsibility can’t make depression go away.

    12:45 What happens when therapy and medication aren’t enough?

    15:00 What did it feel like to experience happiness for the first time after treatment?

    17:30 How ketamine treatment offered relief when severe depression returned.

    21:00 Why mental illness needs to be treated like any other medical condition.

    23:45 How being open about treatment shaped the culture at Paul’s company.

    25:15 What should you do if your workplace doesn’t support your mental health?

    28:15 How leaders can help make conversations about mental health feel more normal.


    Resources + Links

    Find more about Paul Greenberg on his website https://paulgreenberg.com

    If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, you can find support through the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline suicidepreventionlifeline.org

    If you're concerned about a young person in your life, find support and resources through the JED Foundation jedfoundation.org

    You can also reach out for support through the Crisis Text Line crisistextline.org

    Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

    Watch the podcast on YouTube 

    Find more resources on our website morraam.com


    Follow

    Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

    Follow Paul on LinkedIn: @paulgreenberg

    34 min
  • What Is Post Traumatic Growth? with Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman

    What if the parts of yourself you feel most ashamed of are not things you need to hide or fix, but parts you need to learn to accept? In this episode, I sit down with psychologist and author Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman to talk about self-compassion, neurodivergence, shame, and what it means to find growth and meaning in the face of adversity. Scott shares why you create so much unnecessary suffering by ruminating over how others perceive you, how trusting your intentions can help you stop beating yourself up, and why you can accept and love yourself without necessarily liking every part of who you are. Tune in to discover how to stop reducing yourself to your mistakes or your past and build a more compassionate relationship with your whole self.


    Check out our sponsors:

    ElevenLabs - If you run a business or handle customer operations across support, sales, or marketing, you can start with a demo at elevenlabs.io/achiever. 

    Granola - If meetings are eating up your day, Granola is a no-brainer. You can try it totally free - just head to granola.ai/ACHIEVER. 

    IM8 - Go to IM8HEALTH.com/achiever RIGHT NOW or click on the link in the description and use code achiever for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, plus ten percent off your order

    Monarch - Write your own money story with Monarch. Use code ACHIEVER at Monarch.com to get your first year of Monarch Core half off at just $50.

    Shopify - Head over to SHOPIFY.COM/anxiousachiever to start your free trial today. 

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    In this Episode, You Will Learn

    00:00 Why self-actualization isn't something you achieve once and for all.

    05:45 What is human-centered leadership?

    09:00 What Maslow meant by self-actualization.

    15:00 Why no one type of mind should be considered superior.

    18:30 How to think about the different parts of yourself.

    23:30 Can you accept all the different parts of yourself?

    26:00 Why being your authentic self can feel so difficult.

    30:30 How neurodivergence can contribute to rumination and feeling different.

    35:00 How self-compassion changes your relationship with yourself.

    36:00 Why trusting your intentions can help you stop overthinking.

    39:30 What is post-traumatic growth?

    42:00 Can you really grow from trauma and adversity?

    47:30 What does it mean to choose growth instead of fear?

    49:30 Shame, authenticity, and the courage to ask for what you need.

    53:30 What does Maslow mean by being love?

    55:30 Why are you more than the worst thing that happened to you?


    Resources + Links

    Check out Dr. Scott’s books, including Choose Growth, Rise Above, and Leading for Tomorrow HERE

    Learn more about Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman HERE

    Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

    Watch the podcast on YouTube 

    Find more resources on our website morraam.com


    Follow

    Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

    Follow Dr. Scott on LinkedIn: on LinkedIn @scottbarrykaufman + Instagram @scottbarrykaufman

    1 hr 4 min
  • Depression Can Be So Funny, With John Moe

    Can depression make success feel like something you have to keep earning? In this episode, I sit down with John Moe, host of The Hilarious World of Depression, to talk about depression, anxiety, and the ways mental health shapes how you work and see yourself. John shares how he learned to recognize “magical thinking” and the unreliable narrator of depression, why achievement can’t fill the gap between success and self-worth, and how therapy helped him challenge distorted thinking. We also talk about getting laid off, separating your identity from your work, performing normalcy, and knowing when it’s time to ask for help. Tune in to separate your worth from your achievements.


    Check out our sponsors:

    ElevenLabs - If you run a business or handle customer operations across support, sales, or marketing, you can start with a demo at elevenlabs.io/achiever. 

    Granola - If meetings are eating up your day, Granola is a no-brainer. You can try it totally free - just head to granola.ai/ACHIEVER. 

    IM8 - Go to IM8HEALTH.com/achiever RIGHT NOW or click on the link in the description and use code achiever for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, plus ten percent off your order

    Monarch - Write your own money story with Monarch. Use code ACHIEVER at Monarch.com to get your first year of Monarch Core half off at just $50.

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    In this Episode, You Will Learn

    00:00 Why depression and anxiety affect work in very different ways.

    03:15 What humor shows about depression and mental health.

    05:00 What’s the difference between anxiety and an anxiety disorder?

    07:30 What depression can teach you about perspective, creativity, and warning signs.

    10:15 Can achievement actually make you feel better?

    13:00 What does the “unreliable narrator” of depression sound like?

    15:00 How therapy helps identify and challenge distorted thinking.

    17:15 What remains when you separate depression from your sense of self.

    18:45 How getting laid off challenged John’s relationship with work and achievement.

    21:15 When your identity becomes too closely tied to your work.

    24:00 Do you still have to perform normalcy when you’re depressed?

    27:15 How to show up at work when depression makes everything harder.

    29:45 What creative professionals teach us about working with mental illness.

    32:30 Why creative work can accompany mental health struggles without replacing treatment.

    34:00 How does depression show up across different professions?


    Resources + Links

    Get a copy of John Moe’s book, The Hilarious World of Depression HERE!

    Find more resources on John’s website https://www.johnmoe.website/

    Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

    Watch the podcast on YouTube 

    Find more resources on our website morraam.com


    Follow

    Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

    Follow John on LinkedIn: @johnemoe

    39 min
  • How To Lead 106,000 People Without Losing Yourself with Dr. John D'Angelo

    How do you lead at the highest level while still taking care of yourself? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. John D’Angelo, CEO of Northwell Health, to talk about what it means to lead through uncertainty, pressure, and enormous responsibility without losing sight of your own wellbeing. John shares how his emergency medicine background shaped his approach to leadership, how anxiety has fueled his drive to succeed, and why purpose, healthy boundaries, and taking care of yourself can make you a stronger leader. We also talk about burnout, psychological safety, navigating mistakes, protecting time to think, and building a trusted inner circle you can be vulnerable with. Tune in to discover how to lead through pressure and uncertainty while protecting your energy, wellbeing, and sense of self.


    Check out our sponsors:

    ElevenLabs - If you run a business or handle customer operations across support, sales, or marketing, you can start with a demo at elevenlabs.io/achiever. 

    Granola - If meetings are eating up your day, Granola is a no-brainer. You can try it totally free - just head to granola.ai/ACHIEVER. 

    IM8 - Go to IM8HEALTH.com/achiever RIGHT NOW or click on the link in the description and use code achiever for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, plus ten percent off your order

    Monarch - Write your own money story with Monarch. Use code ACHIEVER at Monarch.com to get your first year of Monarch Core half off at just $50.

    Shopify - Head over to SHOPIFY.COM/anxiousachiever to start your free trial today. 

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    Brevo - Get started for free today—or use code ACHIEVER50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription.


    In this Episode, You Will Learn

    00:00 What does leadership mean to you?

    03:45 How an emergency medicine mindset helps leaders navigate uncertainty.

    06:30 How do you manage worry and stay composed under pressure?

    10:30 Do leaders need to make space for emotion after high-stakes moments?

    16:00 How to create more effective meetings and protect time to think.

    19:30 Why taking care of yourself can make you a better leader.

    23:00 How to handle imposter feelings during major career transitions.

    30:00 What’s putting the most pressure on healthcare today?

    32:00 What does mentally healthy leadership look like?

    34:15 How do you protect your energy, family time, and well-being?

    38:30 How to create psychological safety in high-stakes environments.

    43:45 Who do you need to surround yourself with?


    Resources + Links

    Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

    Watch the podcast on YouTube 

    Find more resources on our website morraam.com


    Follow

    Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

    Follow John on LinkedIn @john-dangelo-md

    54 min

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Host Morra Aarons-Mele is on a mission to reframe how we think about anxiety and mental health in the workplace. Anxiety disorders are the most common mental illness in the U.S. We desperately need better models for leadership and a more holistic view of mental health. Our culture tells those of us who suffer from anxiety and depression that we can’t succeed, but we tell a different story — without sugarcoating the tough stuff. We feature stories from people who’ve been there and experts who can help you thrive.

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