 You know those tricky early dates? You go for drinks. Maybe a walk. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy a similar taste in movies. Then texting. Then maybe a kiss. Uh-oh, now you actually like them. Crap. I mean, great! Now what? If you want to know how to keep the attraction well after the first date, so you can finally stop overthinking and show your best self, this is the episode for you . . . --- ►► Try My Love Life VIP Coaching. To Learn More and join the exclusive club → Go to JoinLoveLife.com

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Have you ever felt like you lost "The One" because of bad timing? They moved country, they weren't ready to commit, or they hadn't matured enough yet?   It's common to tell ourselves this is a case of "right person, wrong time". But that can make the pain of loss even worse. We despair that we've lost a great love and it's down to pure bad luck.   If you're struggling to get over someone like this, make sure to listen to this episode. Matt and Audrey talk about the myth of "right person wrong time" and the essential mindsets that can bring you back to confidence and optimism about moving on and finding love again.  ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com   ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

245: There Is No Such Thing as Right Person Wrong Time!

Most people want to avoid players in dating . . . yet why do so many end up in relationships (or situationships) with them?  Sadly, it’s all too common to get seduced into a roller coaster romance where we feel amazing chemistry but never know where we stand with someone.  Today I’m giving you the best advice I’ve given on this topic through 7 clips that will help you avoid players and find the right person. If you’re ready to rewire your brain and start attracting someone who says “yes” to a relationship, this is for you.  ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com  ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com  ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

(Matt Monday): How To AVOID Dating "Players"

It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didn’t invest precious time in the wrong people.   It can be hard to read someone’s intentions in the early stages. I can’t make you a foolproof lie detector, and I can’t guarantee you’ll never be ghosted again, but I can make you a competent “detector of intentions” so you have the best possible chance of investing your time into people who are serious about a relationship with you. --- ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign Up Now For My Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships.com → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

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Matthew sits down to talk with Sabrina Zohar (sabrina.zohar) on unrealistic expectations in dating, healing old wounds, setting boundaries, choosing a happy relationship, and how insecurities affect who we date. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►►Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

244: Stop These Insecure Dating Behaviors! - w/ Sabrina Zohar

So you just realized you actually like someone?   Hold up a second . . .   When we fall for someone in the early stages of dating, it’s very easy to drop our standards and lose sight of our boundaries. We check our texts constantly. We cancel other plans for them. We agree to live on their schedule.    This situation is especially dangerous for people who have a more anxious attachment style and tend to respond to relationship uncertainty by bending over backwards to keep someone happy.   In today’s new episode, I explore how different attachment styles respond in this situation, and how you can attract a healthy relationship where your standards and boundaries won’t be trampled.  ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign Up Now For My Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships.com → http://www.The3Relationships.com  ►► Get My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com  ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

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