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Join Junior Jewels Co Hosts Karli and Jess every Tuesday as they keep you up to date on all things Taylor Swift! Discussing her music and eras, from muses to conspiracies, tea and the latest news, these girls will be your swiftie guides to keep you in the know.

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Send us a Text Message.The girls are back with a surprise episode! It has been awhile since Karli and Jess have chatted current Taylor Swift news and as always, there has been so much happening! Tune in on this extra episode to hear the girls discuss Taylor and Travis at Coachella, The release of The Tortured Poets Department, the 15 and The Mahomies Charity Gala, everything there is to know about the updated Eras Tour setlist, all of the new things experienced at the Eras tour Paris and more...

Eras Tour Paris, Travis Kelce, Coachella, The Tortured Poets Department Release, 15 and The Mahomies Charity Gala and More!

Send us a Text Message.Jess and Karli are back and excited to give you the episode you have been waiting for! Today the girls are giving you all of the nitty gritty details of Taylor's friendship/situationship/relationship with Matty Healy. How could a couple week fling turn into some of Taylor's most heartbreaking songs? Find out in today's episode a decade's worth of clues into how they got where they are today. Watch Lauren Lipman’s Matty Healy Deep Dive on YouTube here. Next week we ...

Matty Healy and Taylor Swift Relationship Timeline

Send us a Text Message.Back with part 2 of the album discussion of The Tortured Poets Department, Karli and Jess are going song by song of the last 15 songs of the Anthology. They discuss fan favorites such as The Black Dog, thanK you aIMee, and So High School (including some of their thoughts on Travis Kelce).  Plus Jess begins her hints toward which songs she believes to be about Harry Styles. The girls still can't believe there were 15 additional songs announced and some of their very...

Album Discussion Part 2: The Tortured Poets Department

Send us a Text Message.Happy Tuesday! Today Karli and Jess are so excited to discuss their thoughts on the music from The Tortured Poets Department now that they have had awhile to get familiar with the songs! Find out their favorite lyrics, what has changed since their initial reactions episode last week, and their overall thoughts on the first half of the album! Yes, there will be a part 2 where the girls discuss the remainder of the Anthology next week.Make sure to follow us wherever you l...

Album Discussion: The Tortured Poets Department Part 1

Send us a Text Message.The wait is over and Taylor Swift's The Tortured Poets Department is officially here! The girls are chatting about their initial reactions including their favorite songs, overall thoughts, and if any of their initial predictions were correct. They also discuss their thoughts on some of the hate this album (especially Jack Antonoff) have been receiving, their TTPD listening party, the double album release, and more! Don't forget to hit that follow button so you can be no...

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Hi!&nbsp; I’m Shelise Ann Sola— former devout Mormon.&nbsp; On C2C, my husband Jonathan and I dive deep into the nuance of culty organizations.&nbsp; From Extreme Christian Fundamentalism, FLDS Polygamy, Amish, Mennonite, Mo...

Self-Improvement

Isolated in a cult within a cult within a cult, Ashley was completely sheltered from the outside world. From infancy she was labeled as unruly and even demon-possessed. Determined to break her as a toddler, then later brag about it, her pastor grandfather took it too far. She would be forced into submission and gr**med to be a “stay-at-home daughter” until her father transferred authority to her betrothed husband. This is how she accidentally escaped the prison in her mind. Click here to watc...

Forced Into Submission:  Trapped in the Stay-at-Home Daughter’s Movement

Scientology doesn’t believe in the young. They teach that they are trillion year old beings in small bodies. Therefore, they are not treated developmentally correct. Neglected, exploited for work and severely mistreated, they suffer the most in this organization. Serge Del Mar tells his story of growing up in Scientology and his advocacy work to make people wake up and listen to the lost souls who are begging silently for help.Click here to watch on YouTubeFind Serge on Social!YouTube: @liter...

Scientology Forced 12 yr Old to Audit Adults & Rehabilitate Pedophile

At age six, Katherine Spallino is separated from her parents and sent to train for her future in the Church of Scientology’s clergy—the Sea Organization. She rarely sees her parents and never goes to a normal school. Later, Katherine is sent to live at a secluded ranch with other young prospective Sea Org members, called cadets, where she studies Scientology and does manual labor—weeding fields, digging trenches, and works in the galley. The indoctrination escalates, and her family slips even...

The Bad Cadet:  Growing Up in the Church of Scientology's Sea Organization

Raised by Scientology and forced into the Sea Org and labor intensive youth camps, Mike Brown didn’t have a choice but to be indoctrinated and used by the organization. After he managed to escape, leaving behind his mother and wife, years later he learned of the extreme elder ab*se that was happening. Determined to save his mother who was quickly being worked to death, he devised a plan to break her out and nurse her back to health before it was too late. Click here to watch on YouTubeFi...

How Scientology Almost Killed His Elderly Mother

The troubled teen industry has been in the limelight lately for its more than questionable tactics to “reform” kids. Add in a heavy dose of religious extremism and you have the sometimes fatal Independent Fundamental Baptist all-girl’s school Ashley attended. The most common sentence was 1 year of brutal manual labor, peer-inflicted punishments and psychological warfare. Click here to watch on YouTubeFind Ashley on Social!IG @ashfilet Facebook https://www.facebook.com/ashley.kellam**FULLY BOO...

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Cults to Consciousness

Every other sex and dating podcast tells you how to be with that “one special person.” Screw monogamy! Join us on the flip side and let’s talk about open relationships. Welcome to Double Teamed, we’re Cami & Niki, and we want you to come to explore non-monogamy with us: polyamory, sex parties, watch...

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Welcome back DT Fam! Melanie Ruth Rose from Netflix's How to Build a Sex Room joins us on the pod today, and we are absolutely stoked to have her. We were huge fans of the show back when it aired, so to get an inside scoop directly from her was an absolute treat. We discuss Masturbation May, her first sex toy, redesigning sex toy shops, sturdy beds, and more. Check out Melanie's Instagram and website for more about her designs.

Sex Dungeons & Adult Stores ft. Melanie Ruth Rose

Welcome back DT Fam! Today we are joined by Jess and Dr. M from Remodeled Love, and we are THRILLED to have them. We've been wanting a polycule with children on the pod for a long time, and they are the prime example of how a village can come together to raise children in a healthy, loving environment. We discuss platonic love, bedroom arrangements, and what they like to call - cat door polyamory. Enjoy!

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Cat Door Polyamory ft. Remodeled Love

Hey DT Fam :) no guest this week - just the two of us! We did a Q&A on our Instagram! We answer your questions regarding getting back into dating again, how to handle consent during group play, dealing with a stale sex life or insecurities, and Niki's favorite - have we ever had cum on our feet? Let's just say - we are feeling *inspired* by that last one.

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Cum On My Feet

Hey DT Fam! You might remember Kate from a previous episode. She's back today to give us her best feng shui tips to bring some extra spice and balance to your bedroom. Get rid of anything from your ex, maybe move the TV to another spot, and definitely get some darker sheets, plus so many more! She is a wealth of knowledge, and we left this episode feeling inspired and ready to make some needed changes. Hope you all enjoy this episode as much as we did! Check out Kate's website and order her new book, the Inner Tarot!

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Make Your Bedroom Sexier ft. Kate Van Horn

Hey DT Fam! Today we welcome Tia Lynn, host of the Sexy Biz Babe Podcast. She gives us her top pussy eating tips, ways to perfect the delivery when discussing the hard things with your partner, and also - how to approach a threesome as a couple with the right energy. Hope you all enjoy her as much as we did, be sure to check out her Instagram and her podcast.
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Charlie Bardey and Natalie Rotter-Laitman explore some of the most (and least) pressing ideas, theories, axioms, and concepts out there. 


Ideas Covered:Bangs BullyTV problemPick can't sayFOMO proximityRock paper ultimateCousins cousin


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Bangs Bully

Ideas Covered:Drizzle me who are youPearly appealElevatorMean awThe womanPorn/weed historyActing was picking me backWho are you with rudeActors aloneEyelash/makeup stickers


Guest: Celeste Yim

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Drizzle Me Who Are You (w/ Celeste Yim)

Ideas Covered:Joel Gray Alessandra AmbrosioThe heart shotClog the crownThe words are out there


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The Heart Shot

Ideas Covered:Boss EyesWhen it's bad (chess actress)Goodbye lockThe Pokemon thingTrain loud train quiet


Guest: John Early

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Goodbye Lock (w/ John Early)

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Guest: Brittany Carney

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Carton Makes The Man (w/ Brittany Carney)

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En blivande mamma och en supersingel möts bakom varsin mick för att prata om livets kontraster och tabuer. Det pratas om dejtingliv, kändisskap, draman och obekväma sanningar. Det är högt i tak när tjejerna kliver in i studion för att spela in nya avsnitt som släpps varje onsdag.
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*Triggerwarning* Anna Lidén gästar tjejerna för att dela sin starka berättelse om hur hon levt som prostituerad. Vad var det som ledde henne dit och hur börjar man om efter år av att ha jobbat med prostitution?
Missa inte Annas nysläppta bok ''Blunda Och Tänk På Något Annat - En Sann Berättelse'' som finns på Adlibris.
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59. Livet efter prostitution

Hela Kändis-Stockholm har öppna förhållanden och Alice har varit i Åre och festat med Caia. Jhon har varit på kosläpp och sett dom största pattarna och Klara har hoppat på tjuren igen.
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58. MODERNA KNULL

Alice närmar sig en utbrändhet efter allt influencande och Klara blir inte avundsjuk på Jhon oavsett hur mycket han försöker. 
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57. En tuff vecka som influencer

Benim, Victor och den andra shunon pratar ihop sig för att få högre lön av cheferna. Tjejerna pratar om onani, Bachelorette (???) och falska vänner.
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56. SKALETT OCH LÖNEREVISION

Alice har en helt ny respekt för kvinnor med hormoner och har synkat mensen med sin flickvän. Klara har varit i Marbella med hela familjen och stör sig på regler som inte tjänar något syfte? Allt om detta och mer i veckans avsnitt!
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S2E20- La quête de la sobriété intérieure - Flo Delavega

Ce jeudi dans Contre-addictions, on retrouve Flo Delavega pour discuter de sobriété dans son sens le plus large et le plus noble. Florian Garcia, bien plus connu sous le nom de Flo Delavega, se destinait à une carrière de professeur d'EPS, mais la musique le prend par surprise à 20 ans et le succès pareil avec son groupe Frero Delavega, à peine un peu plus tard. S'ensuivent les doutes, le sentiment d'illégitimité, la fuite, la recherche incessante d'un ailleurs plus en paix qu'il trouvera d'abord dans les substances dites douces ou psychédéliques, mais aussi peut-être dans la réussite, les disques d'or, l'amour du public. Mais encore une fois, il lui faudra peu de temps pour réaliser que l'état d'Êtreté, comme il l'appelle, est possible dans un espace différent de toute cette illusion.  Rendez-vous jeudi sur toutes les plateformes de podcast, Youtube et les réseaux sociaux de Rose, Contre-addictions et Double Monde. Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

Teasing du prochain épisode -   La quête de la sobriété intérieure avec Flo Delavega

S2E19 - Les mécanismes de défonce face à l’emprise psychologique - Gabriel Raskinet

Jeudi prochain. dans Contre-addictions, on approfondit la thématique de la dépendance affective et de la perversion narcissique. Gabriel Raskinet, jeune entrepreneur créateur du podcast "Sortir de l'addiction", a subi, comme notre invitée de la semaine dernière, Sophie Costes, l'emprise d'une personne toxique, ou plutôt de deux, sa mère et son beau-père. Mais la dépendance ne s'arrête pas là. La souffrance devient si insupportable que lorsqu'il découvre des substances qui la soulagent, il ne pourra bientôt plus s'en passer. Il met alors en place des mécanismes de défonce pour répondre à la violence des liens toxiques familiaux. Comme toutes les addictions, ça fonctionne un temps. Mais très vite, la cocaïne, l'alcool, les pétards prennent l'ascendant sur sa vie et ne répondent plus à la demande initiale. Les toxiques anesthésie tout, sauf la douleur.   Rendez-vous jeudi sur toutes les plateformes de podcast, Youtube et les réseaux sociaux de Rose, Contre-addictions et Double Monde. Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

Teasing du prochain épisode -  Les mécanismes de défonce face à l’emprise psychologique avec Gabriel Raskinet

S2E18 - Le pervers narcissique, une drogue sur mesure - Sophie Coste

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Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy, Relationship Advice & More. Presented by Author and Coach Zachary Stockill from RetroactiveJealousy.com.


In today’s video, I share my view on how to break the deadly retroactive jealousy cycle.



Read or watch below to learn how to break the retroactive jealousy cycle. 









Zachary Stockill: What do retroactive jealousy sufferers and drug addicts have in common? The answer might surprise you, and that’s exactly what I will go into in today’s video.



For the people here for the first time, the term “retroactive jealousy” refers to unwanted intrusive thoughts, often obsessive curiosity, and what I call “mental movies” about a partner’s past relationships and/or sexual history.



It’s pure hell, but if you found this article and are reading it, you probably know exactly what I’m talking about. 



As I mentioned a moment ago, since 2013, I’ve been working full-time on this issue of retroactive jealousy; as part of that work, I host a private Facebook group. 



It’s a secret Facebook group for students taking my premium online course “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast,” as of today, we’re over 500 members strong. 



There are always fascinating discussions, with plenty of individuals who’ve conquered retroactive jealousy choosing to stay, provide support, and share their insights and advice.



One of the best things I’ve ever done in my professional life is to create this secret Facebook group.



Anyway, I mention this because not long ago, a student in this Facebook group left a brilliant comment that I just had to share with you.







So, the quote is from this student in my group:




“One thing I’d like to add is that I think it’s something I’ve experienced is that retroactive jealousy can be like an addiction. You get the adrenaline rush, reassurance, and the feeling of calm. 



It’s not a pleasant experience, and perhaps something that the sufferer isn’t doing consciously, but it’s important to replace that cycle with something. Otherwise, it’s a possibility that it could continue.”




I thought this was great, and it helped articulate something that I’ve thought a lot about in terms of the similarities often between retroactive jealousy and addiction.



So, full disclosure: I’m not an addict, and I have no personal experience with this. But I know a little bit about how addicts and how addiction functions.



There’s a constant craving for a thing, whether it’s reassurance from our partner or details about our partner’s past. Whatever it is, there’s this constant craving. 



For a drug addict, the craving for the drug is constant. They might feel better once they obtain what they desire, like the reassurance and all the details they need.



For a few hours, a day, a week, whatever. They might even feel euphoric and hear something from their partner that makes them feel great. 



We may gain some insight into their past, making us feel fantastic. Similarly, a drug addict might experience a high from their drug of choice, feeling blissful for a few hours, a day, or even longer,

How To Break The Retroactive Jealousy Cycle: Hear This [VIDEO]


In today’s video, I’m going to offer the best piece of dating advice that I have encountered.



Read or watch below to discover the best dating advice.









 Zachary Stockill: You may look at the title of this article and think it’s absolute clickbait, but it’s not. I assure you: in today’s video, I’m going to talk about what I believe to be the best dating advice ever.



My name is Zachary Stockill, and since 2013, I’ve been working one-on-one with men and women from all over the world, helping them overcome retroactive jealousy and save their relationships.



If you’d like more information about my work, or you’d like to work with me one-on-one, please visit this link.



The best dating advice ever, and really the only dating advice I think any man or woman truly needs, is: be dateable.



Before you throw away your phone or laptop in disgust, take a moment to hear me out…



This is an idea that Professor Jordan Peterson talks about a lot. This is an idea that a lot of people talk about.  But it still seems like it’s lacking from the popular discourse on relationships, at least in the Western world. 



Many people are interested in dating advice, attracting a better partner, building a better relationship, getting more dates, or getting better dates.



The focus is always on “what I can get.”







And I’m not vilifying these people whatsoever. That’s a very human impulse to be selfish in our thinking, thinking about me, me, me. 



What can I get? How can I get this? I want that. It’s very human to have such impulses.



But when you shift your focus to what you have to give or how you can increase what you have to offer, things change.



Miracles truly start to happen. This is an idea that took me a while to understand, but once I truly got it, my dating life changed, and my life in general as a man became much, much, much better. 



So many people ask, ‘How can I find the perfect partner?’ 



What fewer people ask is, ‘How can I be the perfect partner?’



This sounds so obvious, but how often do we neglect it in our dating lives? We’re always focusing on getting. We’re not so keen to think about how we might be giving and how we can give more and better. 



So, here’s the reason that I’m talking about this topic and why I was inspired to write this article.



Often in the West, you’ll find groups of men on online forums and social media who spend their time complaining about women. 



They say things like “modern women are this” and “modern women are that,” bemoaning that they can’t find what they’re looking for and questioning the existence of the perfect woman, all while engaging in endless grumbling.



It’s all a victim mentality, really. 



And then you see these guys, and I’m just going to point out the obvious here, but it’s hard not to notice—they don’t seem to take much care of themselves physically.




The Best Dating Advice, Period: Listen To THIS [VIDEO]


In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how to stop seeking reassurance and start building confidence in yourself and your relationships.



Read or watch below to learn about how to stop seeking reassurance.









 Zachary Stockill: A frequent behavior among those suffering from retroactive jealousy is something I term ‘reassurance seeking.’



Reassurance seeking involves approaching your partner and asking various questions about their past, seeking assurance that you’re truly the best match for them, and pressing them to reveal details they’ve probably already told you.



You get the idea. Seeking endless reassurance from your partner.



In today’s video, I want to respond to a viewer of this channel who is wondering how to stop this constant reassurance-seeking.



My name is Zachary Stockill, and since 2013, I’ve been working one-on-one with men and women from all over the world, helping them overcome retroactive jealousy and save their relationships.



If you’d like more information about my work or you’d like to work with me one-on-one, please visit this link.



I received a comment on a video on my channel from a viewer we’ll call ‘A’.



A writes, 




“How do I stop seeking endless reassurance from my partner? I start a discussion just because I want reassurance from him. But the thing is, I’m not only doing it with the topic of retroactive jealousy. How can I get the reassurance I need in another way? How can I stop self-sabotaging?”








Just to clarify, this comment was posted on a video discussing retroactive jealousy. 



For those who are unfamiliar or new here: the term ‘retroactive jealousy’ describes unwanted, intrusive thoughts, often obsessive curiosity, and what I call ‘mental movies’ about a partner’s past relationships or sexual history.



Retroactive jealousy can often involve a lot of reassurance seeking from your partner.



My first tip is to remember that you will never receive some ultimate reassurance from your partner regarding retroactive jealousy.







You can never get enough reassurance from them. You might get a fix, let’s say, that lasts for a couple of hours, or maybe a day, or even a whole week, maybe even longer than that…



But that itch will come back sooner or later. You’ll find yourself needing an answer to a specific question. You’ll yearn to hear something you’ve heard before, to reassure and have them proclaim their undying love for the millionth time.



It’s never going to be enough. You’re never going to receive enough reassurance from your partner. It doesn’t work that way.



You can think of it like a drug addict with drugs.



So, for someone who’s addicted to something like heroin, there’s never enough heroin. They’re always going to need another fix, if they’re a true addict. They’re always going to need another jolt of energy, another jolt of heroin.




How To STOP Seeking Reassurance: Listen To This [VIDEO]


Today, I will address guys who tell me ‘My girlfriend’s past bothers me’ and explore ways to process these concerns.



Read or watch below if you have ever felt like ‘My girlfriend’s past bothers me…’









 Zachary Stockill: Just about each and every day, I receive some variation of the question: “Zach, my girlfriend’s past bothers me. Does this mean that we should break up?”



Giving generalized advice on this topic can be challenging since every individual and relationship is unique. However, I’ll do my best to provide helpful insights in this article.



My name is Zachary Stockill, and since 2013, I’ve been helping men and women worldwide overcome retroactive jealousy and save their relationships. If you’re interested in working with me one-on-one, please visit here.



So, if you have ever felt like “my girlfriend’s past bothers me,” and you’re wondering whether or not you should break up, the first question I would pose back to you is:



Is it that you don’t like thinking about it or you feel like you can’t stop thinking about it?



Since those two things aren’t the same, there’s some critical information to uncover in their differences.



For the people who are new here, I describe “retroactive jealousy” as a mix of unwanted intrusive thoughts and often obsessive curiosity.



It can also include what I refer to as ‘mental movies’ about your partner’s past relationships.



And there are different kinds of retroactive jealousy.



Sometimes, retroactive jealousy can feel almost like a form of OCD. 



It’s as if there’s a biochemical process in your brain fueling these intrusive thoughts, and no matter how hard you try, you can’t stop thinking about it.



And other times, it’s more related to a genuine clash of values. In other words, sometimes retroactive jealousy is not exactly irrational.



For instance, discovering that your partner has a history of serial cheating raises red flags. It’s natural for this to put you on high alert. In such situations, it’s fair to say that your feelings of retroactive jealousy aren’t unfounded or baseless.



So, you must get clarity on whether or not what you’re dealing with is rational or irrational, as the case may be. 



I would also encourage you to get more clarity about your relationship, boundaries, goals, and values. 



In other words, at this particular juncture in your life: what are you looking for in a partner, in a relationship?







What role do you envision your partner playing in your life? Think about the function you want your relationship to fulfill.



What are your goals for dating or being in a relationship? Are you looking to get married soon ...

“My Girlfriend’s Past Bothers Me… What Should I Do?” [VIDEO]


In today’s video, I share some crucial tips on how to improve your self-talk.



Read or watch below to learn more about how to improve your self-talk.









Zachary Stockill: “Self-talk” is a trendy topic nowadays. Self-talk can be defined as the things we tell ourselves about ourselves repeatedly.



Our self-talk is usually subconscious. We often tell ourselves things about ourselves without even realizing it. Thus, improving our self-talk is one of the easiest and fastest ways to change our lives for the better and to be happier people.



I believe I’ve made significant progress in improving my self-talk, and today, I’d like to share some tips on how you can achieve similar improvements.



My name is Zachary Stockill, and since 2013, I’ve been working with men and women from all over the world, helping them overcome retroactive jealousy and save their relationships.



The first step in improving our self-talk is to acknowledge that we make sense of the world by telling ourselves stories.







We tell ourselves stories about everything, and we may not even realize it.



We may take certain things for granted, including stories, perspectives, and thoughts about various subjects. Our interpretations of people, places, events, and even ourselves are uniquely ours, reflecting personal perspectives that are entirely our own.



The way we get through life, good or bad, is by telling ourselves stories about ourselves and about the way the world works, and a crucial component of living a better life is to simply realize this:



We always have the option to tell ourselves a better story about anything, including ourselves.







We often tell ourselves stories that we inherit. For example, our parents may have had certain beliefs about sex and sexuality as children that we were exposed to without even realizing it. 



We’re carrying those narratives around with us for the rest of our lives, or maybe we find some YouTuber, for example…



You’re looking for insight into something, and you attach on to a narrative, a particular point of view, and you don’t even realize it.



But that narrative or that point of view influences your thinking moving forward. It’s influencing the story that you’re telling yourself. All of this encourages you to start thinking about the stories you’re telling yourself.



And if you’re reading this article about improving your self-talk, start thinking specifically about what your self-talk looks like.



The narratives you’re repeatedly telling yourself about yourself, perhaps even subconsciously—what are these stories? Consider the narratives you hold about your past, future and the stories you tell yourself about your present.



Think broadly about this question. Get creative. And think outside the box. It isn’t always an easy question to answer. I want to be clear about that.



Working with a skilled therapist or coach can b...

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On March 2, 2018, an anonymous and deadly package bomb detonated on the doorstep of a home in Austin, Texas. Soon after -  another was discovered, and another—each one a little more sophisticated than the last, and each target seemingly more and more random. Confusion and panic set in across the city - who was this elusive serial bomber? Why were they planting these bombs? And why were they so hard to track down? Find out on Witnessed: 19 Days - The story behind the frantic race to catch the Austin serial bomber. Join host Sean Flynn as he traces the case from its origins to its shocking conclusions. Available now wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribers to The Binge can listen to all episodes of Witnessed: 19 Days right now, completely ad-free.
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Witnessed: 19 Days - The Hunt for the Austin Serial Bomber

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Poisoned Letters & a Frantic Investigation - The Untold Story of the Anthrax Attacks

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How far would you go to save the world from itself?



Dr. Eugene Mallove believed that a new form of world-changing free energy — cold fusion — was just around the corner. Even when his work was pushed to the fringes, he dreamed of a brighter future. But before Dr. Mallove could usher in that future, he was found dead in the driveway of his childhood home. Everyone had their own ideas of who killed him, and investigators were looking in all the wrong places.



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An unauthorized podcast series peeking behind the curtain at the vast machinery and briar patch politics of fighting terrorism and insurgency and everything in between. I'm a "COINtra" and not a "COINdinista", the latter are the vast army of apparatchiks and apologists who fire the engines of Irregu...

In this episode I discuss what the attack looks like in America. This is not if, this is when. The country is poised to experience this through a combination of neglect and the sheer hubris of meddling in the world without realize the unintended consequences. I wish I had better news but you have been warned, it's on the horizon. I talk about William Forstchen's "Day of Wrath" and Kurt Schlichter's "The Attack". References: William Forstchen Day of Wrath Kurt Schlichter The Attack Matt Bracken: Enemies Foreign and Domestic. Foreign Enemies And Traitors. Domestic Enemies: The Reconquista. The Red Cliffs of Zerhoun. Castigo Cay. Eric Frank Russell The Wasp Michael Z. Williamson The Weapon (and the entire Freehold series) Ernest R. May Strange Victory: Hitler’s Conquest of France Robert Heinlein The Moon is a Harsh Mistress Robert Asprey War In The Shadows: The Guerrilla In History My Substack Email at cgpodcast@pm.me.

Ep 042 "Storming America: War Comes Home"

This is a continuation of my "Storming America Series" where I will tease out and describe why the inevitable internal attack on America by external forces will be made real. In this episode, I will examine what intelligence looks like from a professional perspective and why America and the West consistently engage in existential chaos avalanches that make the world a worse place. The bureaucratic impulse in the West has been a significant factor in making the intelligence community (IC), like the military community, a paper tiger that is a far greater danger to the inhabitants of the west than an ally. Until the IC is restructured and made more effective, it will consume roughly 100 billion a year to produce shoddy analysis, inform bad policy and a Keystone Kops foreign covert operations history that is a national shame. Like 9/11 and its existential failures, the next attack on America will have them simply asking for more money and more power. If you leveled the FBI, NSA and CIA tomorrow morning, made each of their budgets one dollar and fired all their employees, you would still be safe as a country. References: Richard J. Heuer The Psychology of Intelligence Analysis David Talbot The Devil's Chessboard: Allen Dulles, the CIA, and the Rise of America's Secret Government Mortimer Adler How to Read a Book Tim Weiner Legacy of Ashes: The History of the CIA John Prado The Ghosts of Langley: Into the CIA's Heart of Darkness My Substack. Contact me at cgpodcast@pm.me.

Ep 041 "Storming America: Intelligence Failure is Now and Forever"

This episode will be an addendum to my initial coverage in October 2023 of the Gaza-Israel conflict in Episode 027 and riffing off the domestic implications in Episode 037 of a similar attack on CONUS. If you wish to listen to those before you do this one, you may but I have crafted this so that isn’t necessary. The clock is closer to midnight than it was in October 2023. References: William Forstchen Day of Wrath Kurt Schlichter The Attack Matt Bracken: Enemies Foreign and Domestic. Foreign Enemies And Traitors. Domestic Enemies: The Reconquista. The Red Cliffs of Zerhoun. Castigo Cay. Eric Frank Russell The Wasp Michael Z. Williamson The Weapon (and the entire Freehold series) Ernest R. May Strange Victory: Hitler’s Conquest of France Robert Heinlein The Moon is a Harsh Mistress Robert Asprey War In The Shadows: The Guerrilla In History My Substack Email me at cgpodcast@pm.me.

Ep 040 "The Middle East: Shuffling to the Apocalypse (Part Two)""

I am reusing a previous episode I used in the now moribund Stoicism podcast I started, The Dash, which I ran out of steam on. Applying Stoic values and discipline to the vocation and avocations we practice in life may be the hardest part outside of making a Stoic life a lived lifestyle. I find the management industry is a giant cargo cult that publishes books whose pages number in the hundreds but could simply be a page or two. References: James Clear Atomic Habits Marcus Aurelius Meditations Whitney J. Oakes (editor) The Stoic and Epicurean Philosophers: The Complete Extant Writings of Epicurus, Epictetus, Lucretius and Marcus Aurelius My Substack Email me at cgpodcast@pm.me.

Ep 039 "CG Excursion: Stoicism: Who Dares Leads"

The concept of moral injuries for soldiers and non-soldiers alike, the gift of fear and being a dead man walking and how to handle regret and shame. “As beasts are beneath human restraints, gods are above them... It would be foolish and untruthful to deny the appeal of exalted, godlike intoxication....We have seen the paradox that these godlike exalted moments often correspond to times when the men who have survived them say that they have acted like beasts....Above all, a sense of merely human virtue, a sense of being valued and of valuing anything seems to have fled their lives....However, all of our virtues come from not being gods. Generosity is meaningless to a god, who never suffers shortage or want. Courage is meaningless to a god, who is immortal and can never suffer permanent injury. The godlike berserk state can destroy the capacity for virtue. Whether the berserker is beneath humanity as an animal, above it as a god, or both, he is cut off from all human community when he is in this state.” ― Jonathan Shay, Achilles in Vietnam: Combat Trauma and the Undoing of Character Those millions of men who have been in combat over the millennia have always brought home invisible scar tissue and regret that manifests in many ways but most of us take it to our graves. “…or the pilots doing nine-to-five jobs at computer consoles in Nevada killing people in Iraq and Afghanistan with drones and commuting to and from their homes like any other commuters. Imagine the psychic split that must ensue from bringing in death and destruction from the sky on a group of terrorists—young men who have mothers and a misplaced idealism that has led them into horrible criminal acts, but nevertheless young and brave men—and then driving home from the base to dinner with the spouse and kids. “Have a nice day at the office, hon?” ― Karl Marlantes, What It is Like to Go to War References: Karl Marlantes What It Is Like to Go to War Bill Russel Edmonds God is Not Here: A Soldier's Struggle with Torture, Trauma, and the Moral Injuries of War Clark Savage King of All Things: A Guide to Man's Martial Purpose Dick Couch A Tactical Ethic: Moral Conduct in the Insurgent Battlespace Andrew Bacevich Paths of Dissent: Soldiers Speak Out Against America's Misguided Wars Shauna Springer WARRIOR: How to Support Those Who Protect Us Jonathan Shay Achilles in Vietnam: Combat Trauma and the Undoing of Character Jonathan Shay Odysseus in America: Combat Trauma and the Trials of Homecoming My Substack Email at cgpodcast@pm.me.

Ep 038 "Moral Injury: The Invisible Warrior Marks"

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Meet Craig’s friend Tom Straw. Straw published his first mystery novel, The Trigger Episode, in 2007. Subsequently, writing as Richard Castle, he authored seven more crime novels, all of which became New York Times Bestsellers. Buzz Killer is Tom Straw’s first book under his own name since that blockbuster Nikki Heat series. He is also an Emmy- and Writer’s Guild of America-nominated TV writer and producer having written and produced Night Court, Parker Lewis Can’t Lose, Dave’s World, Grace Under Fire, Cosby, Whoopi, and Nurse Jackie. A former National Board member of Mystery Writers of America, he lives in Connecticut, where his home is his castle. He also has a connection with Craig’s old Late Late show, you can learn more about it in the episode. Check out Tom's new book: THE ACCIDENTAL JOE The Top Secret Life of a Celebrity Chef which is little bit like “What if Anthony Bourdain were using his travel show as cover to spy for the CIA?” Go buy it here.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Please Meet Craig’s long time friend John Henson, an American comedian, actor, and talk show host. He was the co-host of ABC's Wipeout with John Anderson. Sit back and listen to two friends in an engaging conversation, catching up and bringing jokes and joy to you today, enJOY!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

John Henson

Meet Kevin Heffernan & Steve Lemme, two fifths of the funniest comedy troupe in America called Broken Lizard! They are responsible for hilarious films such as Beerfest, Super Troopers, Super Troopers 2 and the tv show Tacoma FD. Don’t miss Craig, Kevin and Steve just straight up riffing for an hour, laughs guaranteed, EnJOY!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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