Mandy Fisher shares the 9 messages she heard growing up from society and the church that tamed her into the person they wanted her to be. She explains how we start hearing these messages as a child and we carry them into adulthood and make decisions based on them.

* I am a sinner separated from God and I need to do right to earn God's love.* There is certainty of right and wrong in life. (There is a right path for me)* I need others to tell me the answers.* My worth comes from my achievements.* I have to be a quiet, meek woman.* I have to give my life to service.* Life is supposed to be perfect.* There is a standard image of beauty.* I am broken if I do not look and function as I should.