"Sean TankTop" is a Youtuber with over 137.7M (yes, one hundred and thirty-seven POINT SEVEN MILLION) views on his channel, which rose to huge popularity initially due to his viral Game of Thrones reactions in the Burlington Bar out in Chicago, IL. He is one of three voices on "The Watchers in the Bar" podcast, where they discuss and review popular media - including Star Wars, Trek, and various other popular franchises. In our discussion, Sean and I discuss video game culture, woefully low expectations put on men in normatively cis-male dominant contexts in terms of their behavior, and chat about our own stories and journies to be better men. We also discuss how we first learned about sex, summer camp romances, and how we need to normalize better discussions even in places like bars and proverbial "boy's clubs" so we can challenge ourselves to be better. This was a fun one and I hope you enjoy it!