Lesser Self vs. Heroic Self. If you defeat this one enemy, everything you want in life can be had. This Enemy, the Lesser Self that lives inside of all of us, is the cause of "Someday Syndrome." It is responsible for every problem in our life. Broken business. Fat. Out fo shape. Poor income. Neglected relationships. Everything is everybody else's fault. No. Not true. And once we defeat this Enemy, the Lesser Self, everything changes for us. Transformation happens. We tell our stories. We become the light to others in the Dark.