Curious Women

003- How To Communicate Your Desires with Dr. Rose Schlaff

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This week, Meg and Kylie sat down with Dr. Rose Schlaff to talk all things breaking down the barriers to intimacy. 

Dr. Rose Schlaff is a sex/intimacy coach and pelvic floor physical therapist who has spent the last 5 years helping women and queer folks break down barriers to intimacy so they can feel confident, connected, and carefree in their relationships in and out of the bedroom.

In addition to her virtual sex/intimacy coaching practice, she is a guest lecturer for the University of Michigan’s Human Sexuality Certificate Program, San Diego State University’s Marriage and Family Therapy Program, and has had the opportunity to lecture internationally on the topic of sexual and pelvic health in Beijing, China.

To learn more, go to https://www.bewellwithrose.com/learn-more , check out Dr. Rose on instagram @bewellwithrose, or get in touch with Dr. Rose at [email protected].

You can download Dr. Rose's FREE guide to talking sex at www.bewellwithrose.com/talk

Actionable steps for this episode:

  • People who are socialized as female tend to be taught to prioritize others desires before their own
  • People with vulvas' pleasure is often not prioritized in our media
  • You have PERMISSION to prioritize your pleasure and communicate your desires
  • Ingredients for better intimacy:
    1. Decrease stress
    2. Connect with your body
    3. Ask yourself what you want (this doesn't even have to be about sex- you can start really small and just ask yourself what you want for dinner!)
    4. Make sure your "inner spotlight" is shining on you during intimate contact, not JUST your partner.
      5. ...more
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      Curious WomenBy Meg Hagar & Kylie Fagnano