In this episode, Cheryl will discuss:  

• Root cause #2 of relationship failure: not getting your needs met.
• How giving out of obligation leads to relationship failure  
• A win-win strategy for asking your partner for your needs to be met.

Key Takeaways:  

• Asking your partner to sacrifice their selfish needs for your selfish needs is a win-lose strategy.
• Sacrifices done to avoid further argument lead to a buildup of resentments which leads to a loss of passion.
• When asking your partner to do something that is in alignment with their highest values, they are going to respond more willingly.
• Sacrifices done to avoid further argument lead to a buildup of resentments which leads to a loss of passion.
• When asking your partner to do something that is in alignment with their highest values, they are going to respond more willingly.  

“There is an art and a science to asking in such a way that it inspires an unreserved YES.” —  Dr. John Demartini

Dr. Demartini The Heart of Love  
https://www.drdemartini.com/values

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