Most people think they need more willpower or motivation to get what they want. But the truth? Your identity runs the show. In this episode, we’ll break down why you keep sabotaging yourself, how your old story is holding you back, and what shifts to make so your actions finally match the life you want.Instagram: <a href="https://https://www.instagram.com/themindmadame" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">@themindmadame</a>Threads: <a href="https://@threads.com/themindmadame" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">@themindmadame</a>www.themindmadame.com

Most people think they need more willpower or motivation to get what they want. But the truth? Your identity runs the show. In this episode, we’ll break down why you keep sabotaging yourself, how your old story is holding you back, and what shifts to make so your actions finally match the life you want. Instagram: @themindmadame Threads: @themindmadamewww.themindmadame.com

Most people think they need more willpower or motivation to get what they want. But the truth? Your identity runs the show. In this episode, we’ll break down why you keep sabotaging yourself, how your old story is holding you back, and what shifts to make so your actions finally match the life you want.Instagram: <a href="https://https://www.instagram.com/themindmadame" rel="noopener noreferrer">@themindmadame</a>Threads: <a href="https://@threads.com/themindmadame" rel="noopener noreferrer">@themindmadame</a>www.themindmadame.com

004 Why You Can’t Get What You Want (Until You Fix Your Identity)

The podcast where we talk about doing life as a human, you know, like a real one who messes up, spirals, figures it out, and keeps going.

We get into nervous systems, sex, trauma, patterns, connection and all the ways you get in your own way (without realizing it).

This isn’t therapy voice or spiritual bypassing. It’s the in-between. The “what now” when you’re done performing, people-pleasing, or pretending everything’s fine.

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The podcast where we talk about doing life as a human, you know, like a real one who messes up, spirals, figures it out, and keeps going. We get into nervous systems, sex, trauma, patterns, connection and all the ways you get in your own way (without realizing it). This isn’t therapy voice or spiritual bypassing. It’s the in-between. The “what now” when you’re done performing, people-pleasing, or pretending everything’s fine. For the men who don’t need saving, just tools that actually work, and someone who won’t sugarcoat it. New episodes weekly. Bring your mess. I’ll bring mine.

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