Ever wondered what it's like to be raised, work in and live a life that is only military?Imagine being a single woman, who has her own career inside a very masculine industry.Sitting in meetings where you are the only woman with 20-50 men?Intimidating much?Perhaps, but what if it was everything you wanted to do and more.This fortnight's episode I sit down with Sally - she grew up in a military family, married a military member (later divorced) and eventually became part of the organisation herself.Imagine everyone knowing your partners (if they're inside as well) and the real possibility of having to work with them later down the track. This is not an uncommon story.It is a life that no one truly knows about unless they're in it or they've married into it. As Sally states - she only knows, or doesn't have any associations with anyone who isn't, connected to the military in some shape or form.Think about it - you move every 2, 3 or 4 years, sometimes one, depending on where you're needed. You get, or your loved one, could be sent overseas for months on end. What do you do with your house? Your pets? Your life? What is it like to be deployed? And what happens when you return? Does life ever go back to normal? Or is it forever changed?Listen to this episode to find out what kind of person it takes to live in this world. It certainly isn't for the faint-hearted.This is Sally. Arohanui, Briar