Welcome 🌿

Thank you for joining me once again on The Human Archive. In today’s episode, I invite you into a conversation that often lives in the quiet corners of healthcare. We explore what doctors carry, not just the knowledge or the diagnoses, but also the emotional weight, the quiet witnessing, and the stories that linger long after the clinic doors have closed. I am joined by Dr. Naomi Jeffrey, a GP at the Dr. Jenny Clinic in Northamptonshire, menopause and wellness expert, and former nurse. Her perspective on the human experience is both unique and deeply compassionate.

Episode Summary 🩺

Together, Dr. Naomi and I talk honestly about the hidden layers of working in healthcare. We discuss the emotional toll, the silence that often surrounds mental health for both patients and clinicians, and the importance of truly listening. Dr. Naomi shares what it means to be present in the room, how she checks in with her own wellbeing, and why healing is often about witnessing rather than fixing. We reflect on stories that have stayed with us, the privilege of holding space for others, and the challenge of not carrying every story home. This conversation is both tender and necessary for anyone who has ever wondered what happens behind the scenes in medicine.

Key Takeaways ✨

• Listening is at the heart of good medicine, far beyond diagnoses
• Patients often carry unspoken fears, guilt, or shame that only surface when they feel truly safe
• Doctors are quiet witnesses to pain, resilience, and acts of kindness every day
• Reflection, supportive colleagues, and personal boundaries are vital for clinicians’ mental health
• Self care is essential, not selfish, and small daily practices can make a big difference
• Kindness and connection matter more than material things, both in and out of the clinic
• You do not have to have everything figured out – taking small steps forward is enough

Resources & Links 📚

• If you are struggling, please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional
• Mind UK: https://www.mind.org.uk
• Menopause and wellness information: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/menopause/
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Call to Action 💬

If this conversation has brought something up for you, whether a thought, a memory, or a feeling, I hope you give yourself permission to sit with it. Maybe say it out loud, write it down, or share it with someone you trust. Remember, you are not alone, and your story matters. Thank you for listening and for witnessing these quiet truths with us today. I will be back soon with more. Until then, take care of your mind and show yourself the same kindness you offer to others.

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