In a normal situation, or stated differently, in the absence of, say for example war, major conflicts, etc., the process of living life is the same for everyone. Whatever happens to you in your everyday life is often the result of your decisions and choices, whether aware or unaware. In other words, your personal experiences are to a large extent determined by how you manage yourself in life. For example, different people when exposed to the same experience will be affected differently depending on their personal responses, which reflects varied personal management skills.

Life itself remains the same everywhere, with manifestations of different conditions at different times, which affects different people. How effective one will be, to exist in such life conditions and lead a happy and meaningful life, largely depends on the management-of-self-in-life by the individual. Unfortunately, this is a highly ignored fact of life by many people, with most choosing to blame external factors, including other beings, for the outcomes of their lives.

No doubt, your own life can only turn out to be as good or bad as your own initiatives at managing yourself, when pitted against all that nature throws at you. Sadly, far too many individuals have passed-on without ever attaining the experience of a meaningful and happy living they possibly could, owing to a lack of much intent to deliberately manage oneself, in a way that influences better outcomes in personal life. To attain such, one need not look anywhere else, but internally, to bring out the best from within and develop skills for the effective management-of-self throughout all life.

The process of managing yourself in life, and not others, is the critical prerequisite to building a strong base or foundation for a greatly stable and fulfilling long-term life experience. What it means is that, when it comes to your life, you’ve got to start with yourself, to take the role of that first brick, manufactured at the highest possible specifications, so it can be laid out to form the most robust of a foundational structure. Your life requires you to be that critical anchor to what matters most to you.

However, like anything else we know and do, there is a need to learn first such skills of managing oneself in life. The best teaching aid is to live the skills yourself. If you’ve been feeling like your life is just wobbling in the wilderness of human life or floating aimlessly like a balloon, and you need to make a tight grip, take this moment to dive into this month’s episode of the Restructure Your Life Podcast.

In this episode, you’ll learn about 10 critical pillars that promotes the quality of effective living, which you can already begin to make a part of your daily life, through thoughts and action, slowly but progressively, and ultimately create a sense of being in charge of your own life.

Interesting? Interested? Listen to the podcast now.