You think you’re just detail-oriented. Truth is, most of the time it’s Intel — the Over-Analyzer Soldier — running outdated missions in your head. He’s the one making you hesitate, rewrite, stall, and second-guess.

In this episode, I break down:

Where Intel comes from and the childhood moments that wired him in.

How overthinking shows up today — at work, with women, and at home.

Why hesitation feels safe but kills trust, momentum, and connection.

The stoplight framework (Red. Yellow. Green.) to retrain your Intel.

What Balanced Intel looks like — sharp, decisive, respected.

Bottom line: Overthinking isn’t protecting you. It’s an old survival pattern costing you money, sex, and peace. Time to take back command.

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