The moment you decide to trust and to go within and heal what needs to be healed then you can love. But until you’ve done the work until you can say that you truly love yourself and you’re not scared of being who you really are… You love all of the darkness and the shadows and the wounds and the trauma, the triggers and everything… all of the imperfections. All of the shitty things that happened to you. All of the stories. Once you can love that and let go. Then you’re on the right track. But if you’re always trying to be something else. And you’re always trying to be something more. And you think that there’s a point in life that you’re going to be healed — you’re wrong. Because healing happens when you love yourself.