St-John On Air

#016 Meaningful Questions


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What if the most powerful parenting tool isn’t advice — but curiosity?

In this episode, I explore how the questions we ask our children shape emotional safety, trust, and long-term connection. Drawing on the work of psychologists and researchers such as Alison Gopnik, Carl Rogers, Peter Fonagy, Mary Ainsworth, Donald Winnicott, Daniel Siegel, Jaak Panksepp, Virginia Satir, and Murray Bowen, this reflection looks at why open, non-judgmental questions matter more than perfect answers.

I talk about:

  • how curiosity builds psychological safety

  • why letting children reflect on us deepens trust

  • how laughter strengthens attachment

  • and how small conversations quietly shape a child’s inner story

This is an episode about slowing down, listening more than speaking, and creating moments when children feel seen — and when we’re willing to be seen, too.

A gentle, nighttime reflection for parents, caregivers, and anyone interested in emotional connection, attachment, and real relationships.

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St-John On AirBy StJohndeGlanville