A father of seven, Paul Welling used to ask himself "Why me?" Paul went through a 10-year stint, including losing his job, feeling unfulfilled and guilty for wanting to leave his job because it was a family business, he and his wife suffered multiple miscarriages, and when he thought his daughter might die. Paul made a "disruption" that transformed his life. Now, he works to help others who are feeling caught in their own "booby traps," and helps them find ways to align work life with values.