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Episode 028: Parents Crying in the Hair Salon – Wait... What?!
The Influence Every Day Show with Dr. Ed Tori

In this compelling episode, Dr. Tori dives deep into an unexpected revelation shared by a hairdresser: parents are increasingly shedding tears while watching their children in the hairdresser’s chair. What’s causing these tears? The answer may surprise you: it’s not the haircut—it’s the rare moment of uninterrupted eye contact between parent and child.

Dr. Tori explores the profound implications of this moment, especially in a world where digital devices dominate our attention. He shares insights on how technology has shifted not just our work but also our relationships, and how we can combat the disconnection it creates by being deliberate in our interactions.

Key Takeaways:
  • Small talk as a powerful tool: How a simple analogy of a hallway full of doors can transform your conversations.
  • Hairdressers and barbers as master conversationalists: Discover how their environment lends itself to deep human connection.
  • The heartbreaking reason parents are crying: A shift in family dynamics caused by the omnipresence of screens and the lost art of eye contact.
  • Technology’s impact on relationships: Learn why it’s essential to be intentional with our communication in an age of scrolling and distractions.
  • The power of deliberate listening: How to recognize conversation gateways and avoid missing crucial moments with loved ones.
    • Memorable Quote:
    "In the midst of a sea of rapid change, we should get really good at what doesn’t change—how to influence others, how to build rapport, and how to cultivate deep relationships with those who matter most."
    Action Step:

    Take a moment today to put down your device and make meaningful eye contact with someone you care about. Be deliberate in your conversations and listen with intention.

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