Today we are joined by Lucy Slight a fellow mom from New Zealand. We talk about those very trying first few weeks and months with our little babies.  Discussing the acceptance of zero control, the fact that bonding doesn't always go as you imagined and the breakdowns that come with the territory. Lucy in particular had a really tough time with her daughter Tui and she takes us through her journey through the hard and into the joy. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel but the tunnel itself can be really dark sometimes. We want to talk about the moments that aren't so pretty and share them, so that other women out there who might be in the struggling phase can be comforted in knowing it's okay that you're feeling that way, you aren't alone, you are seen and it will get better. Love to all the wonderful mama's out - you got this.