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030. Lean into Conflict with Confidence

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030. Lean into Conflict with Confidence

Conflict. Does it make you want to run and hide?

Imagine learning tools that make conflict less scary, easier to handle, and more productive!

In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant Liane Davey, a renowned organizational psychologist and best-selling author of “The Good Fight.” Liane’s mission is to foster better communication, connection, and contribution within teams and organizations, and she offers invaluable insights on navigating conflicts with confidence.

We discuss the the vital role tension plays in effective teamwork as you learn practical strategies and tools for effective communication that can help you transform conflicts into opportunities for growth and collaboration.

What we cover:

  • The important role of values
  • Difference between healthy and unhealthy conflict
  • Difference between feedback and judgment in communication:
  • Emotions as a symptom of an underlying issue, not the issue itself
  • Importance of diverse perspectives and stakeholders in effective teamwork
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    Timestamps

    00:00 Intro
    2:48 Helpful metaphors for conflict
    8:45 Healthy and Unhealthy conflict, tension vs. friction
    12:31 Messages about conflict that get in the way
    17:41 Why it’s kind to speak up
    10:19 Handling bullying
    20:52 Emotions as a tool
    27:07 Tying emotions with good questions
    29:04 The most useful kind of feedback
    31:23 Interpretations and the Two Truths principle
    33:01 True communication

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    Connect with Liane Davey
    • Website
    • Linkedin
    • Instagram
    • Twitter
    • Her Book – The Good Fight
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