39% of women say they almost always orgasm during sex compared to 91% of men. Are you ready to bridge the gap?

With society overvaluing penetrative sex, media depicting unrealistic female satisfaction, and conversations around sex feeling taboo, women are consistently having fewer orgasms than men. Here to talk about the orgasm gap and how to fix it is Dr. Laurie Mintz.

Dr. Laurie is a feminist author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life's work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, joyful—and sexually satisfying—lives. In this episode, she talks about mindful sex, female anatomy, and the three steps to becoming cliterate.

Enjoy!

Episode Highlights:

• 4:57 Why women are orgasming less than men
• 8:05 Are you ignoring your most reliable route to an orgasm?
• 16:49 Why simultaneous orgasms are unrealistic
• 20:19 What sex and meditation have in common
• 22:58 How you can have more mindful sex
• 28:29 A crash course in female anatomy
• 32:45 Three steps to becoming cliterate
• 36:49 How to have more sex-positive thoughts
• 38:43 Sex toys and lubricant recommendations
• 40:15 Debunking three fears women have around vibrators
• 43:36 How to talk about sex with your partner
• 48:27 The truth about squirting
• 54:26 Creating a sex-positive household
• 56:24 Get in touch with Dr. Laurie

Links and Resources:

• Dr. Laurie's Website
• Dr. Laurie on Instagram
• Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It
• She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
• Uberlube
• LELO Intimate Personal Moisturizer
• Yoni Oil
• Sliquid Organics
• Alexa Martinez on Instagram
• Podcast: 015: Sex, Shame, and Orgasms with Sex & Relationship Coach Alexa Martinez

Guest Bio:

Dr. Laurie Mintz is a feminist author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life's work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, joyful—and sexually satisfying—lives through the art and science of psychology.​

As a tenured Professor at the University of Florida, she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students each year. She also teaches and mentors graduate students in both their clinical and research training, helping them to find their own niche as psychologists. Dr. Mintz has published over 50 research articles in academic journals and six chapters in academic books. She has received numerous professional and teaching awards and is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology.

Her two popular press books - both written with the aim of empowering women sexually - are Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship.

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