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β¨ Welcome to Deserts & Gardens Podcast! β¨
In Episode 040, we're tackling a crucial (but often overlooked) relationship principle: disagreeing in private, not in public. Whether you're newlyweds or years into marriage, how you handle conflict shapes your trust, intimacy, and unity. Public correction can quickly lead to shame, embarrassment, and resentment. In this episode, we talk about how to protect your spouseβs dignity, create a safe space for disagreement, and honor one another even when you donβt see eye to eye.
π Key Topics:
Why public correction can damage your marriage
What it looks like to honor your spouse in conflict
How to address disagreements privately and respectfully
The biblical foundation for protecting one another's dignity
π Key Verses:
Proverbs 15:1 β "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
Proverbs 31:11 β "The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain."
Matthew 18:15 β "If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone."
π¬ Letβs continue the conversation!
Have you ever been corrected or called out in public? How did it make you feel? What boundaries have helped you and your spouse protect each other in tough moments?
π Recommended Resources:π Books on Faith & Prioritizing God:Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts by Les & Leslie Parrott β https://www.amazon.com/shop/miaashmen/list/26ECAHQ638ZHA?ref_=aipsflistHabits of the Household by Justin Whitmel Earley β https://www.amazon.com/shop/miaashmen/list/26ECAHQ638ZHA?ref_=aipsflistπ Conferences & Spiritual Growth Resources:Weekend to Remember by FamilyLife β https://www.familylife.com/weekend-to-remember/Focus on the Family Spiritual Growth β https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/π± Bible Study & Devotions:Bible App Devotional on Prioritizing God β https://www.bible.com/reading-plans-collection/200-marriageGotQuestions? Biblical Answers on Spiritual Growth β https://www.gotquestions.org/π Subscribe for more faith-based conversations!π Like this video if it encouraged you!π Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.ποΈ LISTEN ON SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/3LTBmCOalhir5UyjQcL8U9?si=5427cbb9ec4e432aποΈ LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/deserts-and-gardens/id1799717957CONNECT WITH US:ππ½ Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @MiaAshmen β¨π© For inquiries: [email protected] π¬πΊ Subscribe & join the fam: https://www.youtube.com/@MiaAshmen ππ· Follow on IG: https://www.instagram.com/miaashmen/ πποΈ Shop my LTK finds: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/MiaAshmen π€π΅ Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@miaashmen ππ½π Etsy Shop: https://fearflywondrflymade.etsy.com β¨π¦ Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/miaashmen π‘BRAND COLLABS & DISCOUNTS:πΆοΈ FIRMOO: https://bit.ly/3WamPD4 β Promo Code: SIEW50ππ½ SEEK JESUS: https://seekjesus.co/pages/go?ref=7491:677524&discount=Ashmen20 β Promo Code: ASHMEN20π EFFORTLESS ESSENTIALS: https://effortlessessentialsco.com/?ref=xxicesqr β Promo Code: MIA15π ALABASTER CO: https://alabasterco.com/ β Promo Code: alb-miaashmen for 15% offβ¨ If you made it this far, thank you & Jesus loves you! ππ
β¨ Welcome to Deserts & Gardens Podcast! β¨
In Episode 040, we're tackling a crucial (but often overlooked) relationship principle: disagreeing in private, not in public. Whether you're newlyweds or years into marriage, how you handle conflict shapes your trust, intimacy, and unity. Public correction can quickly lead to shame, embarrassment, and resentment. In this episode, we talk about how to protect your spouseβs dignity, create a safe space for disagreement, and honor one another even when you donβt see eye to eye.
π Key Topics:
Why public correction can damage your marriage
What it looks like to honor your spouse in conflict
How to address disagreements privately and respectfully
The biblical foundation for protecting one another's dignity
π Key Verses:
Proverbs 15:1 β "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
Proverbs 31:11 β "The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain."
Matthew 18:15 β "If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone."
π¬ Letβs continue the conversation!
Have you ever been corrected or called out in public? How did it make you feel? What boundaries have helped you and your spouse protect each other in tough moments?
π Recommended Resources:π Books on Faith & Prioritizing God:Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts by Les & Leslie Parrott β https://www.amazon.com/shop/miaashmen/list/26ECAHQ638ZHA?ref_=aipsflistHabits of the Household by Justin Whitmel Earley β https://www.amazon.com/shop/miaashmen/list/26ECAHQ638ZHA?ref_=aipsflistπ Conferences & Spiritual Growth Resources:Weekend to Remember by FamilyLife β https://www.familylife.com/weekend-to-remember/Focus on the Family Spiritual Growth β https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/π± Bible Study & Devotions:Bible App Devotional on Prioritizing God β https://www.bible.com/reading-plans-collection/200-marriageGotQuestions? Biblical Answers on Spiritual Growth β https://www.gotquestions.org/π Subscribe for more faith-based conversations!π Like this video if it encouraged you!π Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.ποΈ LISTEN ON SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/3LTBmCOalhir5UyjQcL8U9?si=5427cbb9ec4e432aποΈ LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/deserts-and-gardens/id1799717957CONNECT WITH US:ππ½ Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @MiaAshmen β¨π© For inquiries: [email protected] π¬πΊ Subscribe & join the fam: https://www.youtube.com/@MiaAshmen ππ· Follow on IG: https://www.instagram.com/miaashmen/ πποΈ Shop my LTK finds: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/MiaAshmen π€π΅ Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@miaashmen ππ½π Etsy Shop: https://fearflywondrflymade.etsy.com β¨π¦ Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/miaashmen π‘BRAND COLLABS & DISCOUNTS:πΆοΈ FIRMOO: https://bit.ly/3WamPD4 β Promo Code: SIEW50ππ½ SEEK JESUS: https://seekjesus.co/pages/go?ref=7491:677524&discount=Ashmen20 β Promo Code: ASHMEN20π EFFORTLESS ESSENTIALS: https://effortlessessentialsco.com/?ref=xxicesqr β Promo Code: MIA15π ALABASTER CO: https://alabasterco.com/ β Promo Code: alb-miaashmen for 15% offβ¨ If you made it this far, thank you & Jesus loves you! ππ