Deserts and Gardens

040 | Deserts & Gardens | Healthy Marriages | Marriage Tips | Fight in Private, Not Public


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✨ Welcome to Deserts & Gardens Podcast! ✨

In Episode 040, we're tackling a crucial (but often overlooked) relationship principle: disagreeing in private, not in public. Whether you're newlyweds or years into marriage, how you handle conflict shapes your trust, intimacy, and unity. Public correction can quickly lead to shame, embarrassment, and resentment. In this episode, we talk about how to protect your spouse’s dignity, create a safe space for disagreement, and honor one another even when you don’t see eye to eye.

πŸ“– Key Topics:

  • Why public correction can damage your marriage

  • What it looks like to honor your spouse in conflict

  • How to address disagreements privately and respectfully

  • The biblical foundation for protecting one another's dignity

πŸ“– Key Verses:
Proverbs 15:1 – "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
Proverbs 31:11 – "The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain."
Matthew 18:15 – "If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone."

πŸ’¬ Let’s continue the conversation!
Have you ever been corrected or called out in public? How did it make you feel? What boundaries have helped you and your spouse protect each other in tough moments?


πŸ“š Recommended Resources:πŸ“– Books on Faith & Prioritizing God:Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts by Les & Leslie Parrott – https://www.amazon.com/shop/miaashmen/list/26ECAHQ638ZHA?ref_=aipsflistHabits of the Household by Justin Whitmel Earley – https://www.amazon.com/shop/miaashmen/list/26ECAHQ638ZHA?ref_=aipsflistπŸŽ™ Conferences & Spiritual Growth Resources:Weekend to Remember by FamilyLife – https://www.familylife.com/weekend-to-remember/Focus on the Family Spiritual Growth – https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/πŸ“± Bible Study & Devotions:Bible App Devotional on Prioritizing God – https://www.bible.com/reading-plans-collection/200-marriageGotQuestions? Biblical Answers on Spiritual Growth – https://www.gotquestions.org/πŸ“Œ Subscribe for more faith-based conversations!πŸ‘ Like this video if it encouraged you!πŸ”” Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.πŸŽ™οΈ LISTEN ON SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/3LTBmCOalhir5UyjQcL8U9?si=5427cbb9ec4e432aπŸŽ™οΈ LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/deserts-and-gardens/id1799717957CONNECT WITH US:πŸ‘‰πŸ½ Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @MiaAshmen βœ¨πŸ“© For inquiries: [email protected] πŸ“¬πŸ“Ί Subscribe & join the fam: https://www.youtube.com/@MiaAshmen πŸ””πŸ“· Follow on IG: https://www.instagram.com/miaashmen/ πŸ’•πŸ›οΈ Shop my LTK finds: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/MiaAshmen 🀎🎡 Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@miaashmen πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ›’ Etsy Shop: https://fearflywondrflymade.etsy.com βœ¨πŸ“¦ Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/miaashmen 🏑BRAND COLLABS & DISCOUNTS:πŸ•ΆοΈ FIRMOO: https://bit.ly/3WamPD4 β†’ Promo Code: SIEW50πŸ™πŸ½ SEEK JESUS: https://seekjesus.co/pages/go?ref=7491:677524&discount=Ashmen20 β†’ Promo Code: ASHMEN20πŸ‘œ EFFORTLESS ESSENTIALS: https://effortlessessentialsco.com/?ref=xxicesqr β†’ Promo Code: MIA15πŸ“– ALABASTER CO: https://alabasterco.com/ β†’ Promo Code: alb-miaashmen for 15% off✨ If you made it this far, thank you & Jesus loves you! πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•

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