The Messy Bun Podcast

044 - Puberty


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Puberty! Every teens favorite topic (insert classic teen eye roll). They might not like talking about it, but we sure do! This week we dive into all things about puberty.

  • How to make the conversation as comfortable as possible
    • Get comfortable with the words before you talk with your daughter
    • Make it a normal part of your home conversations
    • Watch YouTube videos and read books with her (we give great resources below!)
  • Signs and stages of puberty
    • Physical Stages
    • Emotional Stages
    • Mental Stages
  • What older girls should know
    • Teens think about sex!
    • Bodies change all throughout our life
  • What girls should know about boys
    • Why girls should know about boys' puberty
    • Similarities between girls and boys
    • Differences between girls and boys

 

Resources:

  • Jennifer O’Donnell, Signs of Puberty in Preteen Girls, https://www.verywellfamily.com/the-signs-of-puberty-in-tween-girls-3288390
  • Stanford Children’s Health, https://www.stanfordchildrens.org/en/topic/default?id=puberty-adolescent-female-90-P01635
  • Kids Health: Everything You Wanted To Know About Puberty: https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/puberty.html
  • Origin of the word Puberty: https://www.etymonline.com/word/puberty
  • Good YouTube videos
    • Well Cast, Inside Puberty: (Great intro - fun!) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Dg2eMCx9TE
    • Well Cast, Puberty for Girls,  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j_mFJ2d0qxQ
    • Well Cast, Puberty for Boys, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDmTeU6H40s
    • Infographics Show: Signs of Puberty (both boys and girls, focused on the evolutionary reasons for puberty, talks about other animals also), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d0sK5JeTla0
    • WTF is Puberty (I liked this one but it's a more liberal approach - possibly not for everyone), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_879HMK_Nc
  • For good book ideas you check out @kristinbhodson on Instagram. She has tons of good resources. 
  • KidsHealth.org: Talking to your child about puberty, https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/talk-about-puberty.html
  • School District Maturation for 5th grade boys: Becoming a Man (See Utah Sex Ed Curriculum for this resource) 
  • Mental Help, The Development of Adolescent Sexuality, https://www.mentalhelp.net/adolescent-development/sexuality/
  • Sexual Resource Center for Parents, http://www.srcp.org/for_all_parents/development.html
  • Bridget Blackburn, Oral Sex, www.parentmap.com
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The Messy Bun PodcastBy Penny Allen and Stephanie Wood