In this episode I want to talk about loving others, especially people who hurt us.

We all heard this idea that we need to love, return back to love and forgive those who have caused us pain. And yeah, I agree with this, love is the purest energy there is. But we can't really MAKE ourselves love someone when we are hurt.

Feeling hurt and at the same time telling yourself that you can't hate them because it's bad and you need to learn to love them is not loving YOURSELF and not showing yourself that what you feel MATTERS.

I believe that 1. yes, it's ego being hurt, but who says we need to get rid of our ego? We need it, that's why we have it, it's not all bad; 2. when you are hurt, first and foremost show love to yourself, start with self love and validating your feelings.

I'm speaking from experience here, I really tried loving those who hurt me and my oh my we are getting this message wrong! When we start from loving ourselves, we will come to loving others at some point, peacefully, naturally, without resistance.

And let me tell you what I believe is the right way.

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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