Natasha Koo & Jachym Jerie are a couple and relationship coaches that have gone through the wringer together from long distance, to open, to semi open to polyamorous to closed again, today we discuss its good, bad and ugly and what it takes to make a relationship work.

We cover:

Moving from transactional relationships to being of service to your partner but from a place of synergy, so not to drain yourself.

Being able to receive without nagging

Their path as a couple from mistrust, bickering, passive aggressive, snarky remarks to being in a respectful and loving relationship.

Seeing your man from useless to someone you respect

How to stop parenting our romantic partner

How we see our partner, is not who they are aka being present with your partner and not living in the archives of all their perceived wrongdoings.

They don’t believe compromises/sacrifices make for a healthy and happy relationship

Being responsible for our own emotions, whatever we feel is internally created.

The blaming and projecting game

It’s not just about being honest with someone, it’s about being honest with yourself

Find Natasha Koo & Jachym Jerie Podcast: awakenedwife.com

Communication Quiz: www.yourexceptionalrelationship.com/understand

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References in this episode: https://thework.com/ by Byron Katie where you can download her worksheets