In this episode, Kovenant and Gabe share their process in learning to forgive. Their experiences reveal their mindset of how personal identity influences their choice to forgive (AKA: who I am through Christ and who I want to be determines my choice to forgive, to do the hard thing, to confront my enemy.) 🤯

We also discuss the importance of accountability with those who have hurt us. Gabe shares a painful experience with a pastor and his process of forgiving them and setting healthy boundaries to protect his heart moving forward. Kovenant also shares the confidence and self-respect she gained and as she chose to be brave, humble confront a past boss, and continuously forgive them.

If you struggle to forgive (which, let’s be honest, we ALL do), this episode is for you! Hope you laugh a little, reflect a lot, and grow with us ✌️

For anyone wondering what a VHS is…

Matthew 6:14-15

Isaiah 55:8-9

Honesty by Bethel Music feat. Sydney Allen

Forgiveness Resources

Will God only forgive me if I forgive others? - NT Wright

If I Fail to Forgive, Will God Not Forgive Me? - John Piper

Scriptures on Forgiveness