Two years ago, of today, Oct 7, one of the most important person went to heaven.  She is Joan Beesley, one of the best friends of my mother, and also my mother in the U.S. Without her, I would't be as I am right now. I will be talking about 1.how she helped to change my life, and 2.“nothing is more important as timing” as I recall the last time to see her.