The Holy Spirit of God has been misunderstood and misrepresented since the day of Pentecost.  When the people of the city heard the 120 in the upper room speaking in tongues and worship they supposed they were drunk.  Unfortunately it is not much different today.  People afraid of the Holy Spirit because they don't understand Him.  Many people think the Holy Spirit will make them do weird stuff, and embarrassing things.  The Holy Spirit is gentle and He is also a gentlemen.  He will nit abusing His power to usurp your will.  He wants you to yield to Him and His power.