We men sometimes worry too much about what the person in front of us is thinking about our selves. Especially when we are on a date.

"Just be yourself" is an advice, that most people tell to build up someones self esteem. But most people don't even know what that means. It's nearly impossible for someone to be themselves, when there is something at stake, like the woman we are trying to impress somehow.

It's rather more helpful to make someone understand, that they should not care too much about the outcome of any conversation or date.

That's the main topic in a nutshell, but much more ranting about other things around this issue.

Enjoy and stay tuned.

Dean