Mormons love to use the suffering of Jesus as a way to compel obedience. I don’t think this is a healthy thing.

LISTEN TO THIS PODCAST ASAP

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/1336-the-rise-and-fall-of-b-h-roberts/id312094772?i=1000483920476

Gross example of Atonement used as a club

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/inspiration/beauty-for-ashes?lang=eng

Givens article

https://www.ldsliving.com/How-We-ve-Been-Misunderstanding-God-s-Title-of-Savior/s/86849