Why is it so hard to find love?? especially in a small city like Milwaukee. women staring out a window you'd think that it would be easy to find love in 2021…We have dating apps, meet-ups, online forums, social media, and more. this is after trying matchmaking, Tinder, Bumble, Ok Cupid, Hinge, virtually every other dating app, and attending singles events. They have taken the advice from well-meaning (but, sadly, mistaken) friends and family about how to “land a man” (or woman). In this era of information overload and access to thousands of people (and the advice of millions), things should be easier, but they aren’t.