“Your job, throughout your entire life, is to disappoint as many people as it takes to avoid disappointing yourself.” — Glennon Doyle

In this episode of the SEEN Podcast, Bryn unpacks the part no one warns you about when it comes to visibility.

Most women say they want to be seen. Very few are willing to be misunderstood.

But being seen requires the willingness to be misunderstood and to disappoint. And that resilience lives in the part of you that refuses to abandon yourself.

Bryn calls her your inner b*tch.

Takeaways

- The 3 stages of being seen: laying the foundation, clearing the old, and stepping into visibility

- Why disappointment is the price of self-trust

- What your “inner b*tch” actually is (and what she’s not)

- Why women equate being liked with being safe

- How to stop over-explaining and start tolerating discomfort

- Practical ways to build the muscle of self-loyalty

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