Do you accidentally make your spouse afraid or ashamed? (http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/200904/marriage-problems-50-ways-cause-fear-and-shame) Is it reasonable for one spouse to give up sex for Lent? How long should I wait to marry after the death of my spouse? How do I deal with my alcoholic, porn-watching husband? Does low self-esteem lead to premarital sex?