“Never threaten the relationship. Arguments are totally natural. But never go to the stage where you threaten a relationship because that becomes very difficult to repair.”  -Thomas Westenholz

 

Divorce cases piling up in courts, broken families, painful memories- If it is true that love never fails, why are there less and less evidence of it in the world? This week, Shirley and Relationship and Intimacy Expert, Thomas Westenholz reveal the secret to a lasting relationship. They talk about the dynamics in creating a secure attachment, boundaries when making choices, love languages, and conditions that help love to flourish. We also get profound insights into filling up your emotional bank account and dealing with triggers, resentments, and expectations to create deeper intimacy and bring back the connection. Tune in, and let's spend the next hour talking about the two best feelings in the world: to love and feel loved!

 

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Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve

Highlights: 

01:35 What Adults Did Not Learn

08:03 Love Languages

14:45 Conditions For Love to Flourish

20:56 Map Out Your Triggers

28:32 How to Bring the Connection Back

35:13 Resentment: Good or Bad? 

40:51 Learn to Outsource

45:11 Never Threaten the Relationship