Summary

In this episode, Clay and his dad discuss the concept of kids always watching and observing their parents' behavior. Clay shares a story about a time when his son suplexed his daughter, and he reacted in anger, using profanity. He reflects on how his son's fight-or-flight response was triggered and how he wishes he had reacted differently. Clay's dad also shares a story from his past where he acted inappropriately towards his son and regrets it. They emphasize the importance of pausing and controlling emotions in parenting. Clay then shares a positive story about how he surprised his wife with flowers, and his son later made a Lego flower for her, showing that kids also observe and imitate acts of love and kindness.

Takeaways

Kids are always watching and observing their parents' behavior, both good and bad.

Parents should strive to pause and control their emotions in order to react appropriately in challenging situations.

Reflecting on past mistakes and making a conscious effort to change can lead to better parenting.

Small acts of love and kindness, such as surprising a spouse with flowers, can have a positive impact on children and teach them how to show love and appreciation.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Concept of Kids Always Watching

02:26 Story 1: Overreacting to Son Suplexing Daughter

06:29 Story 2: Troy's Regretful Reaction to Son's Behavior

09:17 The Power of the Pause and Reflecting on Actions

13:57 Living Your Legacy and Breaking Generational Habits

28:47 Conclusion: Live Your Legacy as a Parent

29:02 Outro final 2.mp3