In this episode, Abisola and Seyi discuss answers they got from interviewing guys and ladies on what sweeps them off their feet when they first meet, and big no-no's that make them wave goodbye.1:00:  Introductions.4:00:  Types of questions we asked in the interviews.5:58:  Factor #1 that is important at the first meet – appearance.8:00:  What ladies think about appearance at the first meet.9:58:  Factor #2 that is important at the first meet – good conversation.13:44:  What ladies that about good conversation.17:35:  Factor #3 - Be independent, have ambition and drive.21:23:  Other factors – be sweet and kind.22:05:  Other factors – don’t be too materialistic.22:25:  Deal breakers in relationships – character becomes more important than looks.25:05:  Deal breakers in relationships – shared values/faith.25:45:  Deal breakers in relationships – sex.26:50:  Deal breakers in relationships – ideas on gender roles.27:50:  Deal breakers in relationships – continue good conversations and friendships.28:23:  Deal breakers in relationships – personal ambition and desire for growth.29:23:  Other random deal breakers – dishonesty, dating history, kids, financially irresponsible, race.30:00:  Wrap up, and peek into Part 2.