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#10 - Dealing with Painful Emotions in Romantic Relationships

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Episode Title: Dealing with Painful Emotions and Relationships
💖 In this episode we cover: How to navigate challenging emotions in relationships and life’s lows with intentionality, grace, and self-care strategies.

🎤 Asking questions like:

  • What are the biggest and most common things that escalate fights in relationships?
  • How can we intentionally take care of ourselves during emotional lows?
  • What are practical circuit breakers to shift out of negative emotions?

    • 🌟 A Kat Perspective:
    Main Insight: Overthinking and rumination can trap you in cycles of negativity. Sometimes, the key to breaking the cycle is doing the radical opposite of what your instinct tells you—like pushing through discomfort to go to the gym or acting as though everything is okay.
    Additional Insight: Circuit breakers for emotions don’t have to follow a one-size-fits-all approach. It’s about finding what works for you.

    🌼 A Lily Perspective:
    Main Insight: Self-care can be intentional and structured, like creating a “Grace Kit” with actionable steps divided into prayer/mindfulness, wisdom/processing, and indulgent self-care.
    Additional Insight: Respect in conflict and taking time to care for yourself are crucial to navigating relationships and emotions effectively.

    ✨ The Perfect Quote:
    “To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.” – Oscar Wilde

    🎁 A Goodie to Takeaway:
    Create your own “Grace Kit” with three sections:

    1. Prayer/Mindfulness: Engage in activities that ground you, like meditation, prayer, or sitting quietly in nature.
    2. Wisdom/Processing: Journal, talk to a wise friend, or process emotions with a trusted counselor.
    3. Self-Care: Indulge in small joys like lighting a candle, enjoying a hot drink, or listening to uplifting music.

      4. 📚 Resources Hello Missy Loves for Love:

      • Episode 1 of Season 2: Being Self-Possessed and Practicing Feminine Responsibility
      • Create your own "Grace Kit" with steps that work for your unique needs.

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