Warning: This one’s a little vent-y, a little cursy, and a whole lotta honest.

In this Let's Talk About It episode, I get real about what “keeping the peace” actually costs—especially in family dynamics where silence is expected and boundaries are nonexistent. I’m telling the story of a recent family incident that shook me, plus unpacking the emotional aftermath and how often we betray ourselves just to avoid rocking the boat. If you’ve ever walked away from a situation thinking “Why didn’t I say something?”—this one’s for you. Come for the truth bombs, stay for the Petty Prayer™.

What you’ll hear about:

• The difference between peacekeeping and self-abandonment
• Why silence isn't always noble—and when it's just survival
• How your nervous system stores unspoken moments (and how to release them)
• A real-life family story that will make you feel seen, heated, and not alone
• The internal battle between being petty and being purposeful
• Why boundaries matter especially when it comes to family
• A petty prayer for anyone who’s had to endure toxic energy in silence

Resources & Links:

• Read the full blog post: alifedifferently.com/podcast/keeping-the-peace
• Follow me on Instagram: @alifedifferently
• Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab
• Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships by Nedra Glover Tawwab

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Until next time, keep questioning, keep exploring, and keep choosing something different.

Credits:

Music by Mykola Sosin from Pixabay

Music by musicproductionkeys from Pixabay