Narcissists don't see you as an autonomous human being with needs and wants. They don't place a high value on empathy, reciprocity, fairness, mutual respect, or compassion. Others are pawns on a chessboard and the better you become at spotting narcissistic traits in those you know, the fewer rabbit holes down you will go. Lisa A. Romano the Breakthrough Life Coach breaks it all down.  Online Codependency Recovery Program https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp YouTube Channel http://bit.ly/32zOvUh Instagram @lisaaromano Contact  [email protected] Facebook Support Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultchildrenofalcoholics/